Pick-Up Lines – 28 SOLID Openers To Approach Girls (Anywhere)

You want to approach girls and you need some solid pick-up lines to do so?

In this article, I’m going to share with you 28 pick-up lines to approach a woman in an attractive way.

best pick up lines everYou can use those opening lines to approach a girl on the street, to start a conversation with a girl on Internet (Tinder, Facebook, dating sites…), to approach a girl in a club or in a bar, to approach a girl in college or at work…

I’m going to give you some solid openers for each of those environments.

Cause what you need to understand is that there is no such thing as a magic pick-up line that works everywhere.

There’s no such thing as the perfect pick-up line that you can use to approach successfully any woman in any situation.

The same opening line can work wonder in a given situation, but make you look like a creepy or a needy guy in another situation.

Don’t listen to those pseudo-coaches or pseudo-dating-experts throwing you all those pickup lines you’re supposed to use anywhere on any girl.

To approach a hot girl and make something happen with her, the key is to act in a natural way, in concordance with the context.

Each of the lines I’m going to share with you below is to be used to open a girl in a specific environnement, not everywhere.

When you have in mind all those different ways of approaching girls, you are able to successfully approach girls in every places.

If you haven't done so yet, read this article in which I give you my 25 BEST tips to attract girls in a natural yet effective way. It will help you make huge progress in your interactions with women (especially with feminine women).

Let’s start by some solid pickup lines to approach random girls on the street:

Best pick up lines to approach a girl on the street:

In order to successfully approach a woman on the street, you’re going to be clear and transparent, all while remaining solid.

The girl should understand right away why you’ve come to talk to her.

Basically, on the street people are in a hurry:  they usually don’t have the time to talk to strangers (or they think they don’t have the time) and tend to ignore or reject those who come to talk to them (that’s especially true in big cities during rush hour times).

That’s why it is crucial that the girl understands right away that you’re not a weirdo or a beggar who’s going to hassle her. But on the contrary that you are a normal guy who has simply the balls to approach girls he finds attractive.

There are a lot of possible combinations to approach a girl this way.

I encourage you to make the lines below your own (it’s better to say them in your own words, since it will make your approach more natural):

1. “Hi, I was walking over there, I just saw you and I think you look very sexy.”

One of my favorite pick-up line to open a woman on the street or in a public place where she’s on the move.

The first part of the sentence should be tailored to the situation: you can add something like “Excuse-me” at the beginning or replace “I was walking over there” by “I was crossing the street”, “I was getting out of the bus”, “I was getting out of the subway”, etc.

2. “Hi, I just saw you from across the street, and I think you’re gorgeous.”

Quite similar to the previous one.

3. “Hi, I just saw you walking by, and I had to come to say hello. I just love your style.”

Quite similar to the previous ones, but softer.
Less solid.

4. “Hi, I just saw you walking by, and I just love the way your walk. You look pretty classy.”

A great pick-up line if the girl has a feminine way of walking, on which you can make a comment.

5. “Hi, I just saw you walking by and I think you look in absolutely perfect shape. Do you work out?”

A pick-up line that allows you to compliment the girl on her body, but in a way that remains subtle an socially calibrated.

Effective for a first move.

6. “Hi, I just saw you from over there and I think you look really nice. I had to come and talk to you.”

A less solid opener than the previous ones, but which can be as effective if delivered in a masculine and dominant way.

flattering thing to say to a girlThe pick-up lines we just saw also work to start a conversation with a girl in a supermarket, in a mall, in shops, in the hallway to the metro, and so on.

It’s up to you to adapt your level of energy depending on the place where you open the girl:

The more the girl is determined to go from point A to point B (for instance if she’s walking fast on the street), the more you’ll need to stop her with a high level of energy.

On the other hand, if the environment (and the girl) is calm, you’re going to take things slower, in order to be in tune with her.

Pick-Up Lines to start a conversation in public transports:

You’re sitting next to the girl.
The atmosphere in the bus or the train is relatively calm and without too much stress.

Therefore, you can talk to the girl in an easy and relaxed way. Without pressure.

You have the time.
No need to start the conversation with a high level of energy, as you would to approach a woman in hurry on the street (it would even be weird).

You’re going to open the girl by speaking normally, in a relaxed way.

You’re also going to make sure that she doesn’t feel any social pressure.

In other words, you’re going to open her in a way that people around don’t see her as a slut or an easy girl if she answers you kindly.

How can you do this?

I’m getting to it…

To strike up a conversation with a girl who’s sitting next to you, you’re going to use an element of the context, like what she’s doing or her look.

7. “What are you reading?”
Or rather: “Is this <Name of a book>?” (more original than the first variant)

…by pointing at what she’s reading (a book, a magazine, an ebook…).

8. “What game are you playing?”
Or rather: “Is this <Name of a game>?” (more original than the first variant)

9. “At which level are you?”

…by pointing at her phone.

Pick-up lines to open girls in clubs and bars:

You’re probably going to find the opening lines below banal and lame.

They are meant to look that way.
That’s the idea.

What you need to understand is that in clubs and bars, women are used to be approached.

Pretty girls are being constantly approached by all sorts of guys who all try to look more orignal than the others.

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Attractive girls are constantly opened by a whole bunch of guys using super original or sophisticated pick up lines.

That’s why when you use a banal and boring pick-up line, you stand out.

I know it sounds strange, but that’s the way it works.

But there’s more…

You must also take into account that in a club, you have the whole night to seduce the girl.

So don’t put pressure on yourself.
No need to “give it all” for the first impression (as you would to open a girl on the street).

At a party, you can open a girl several times.
You can open several sets and shift between sets.

When you behave as a man who has nothing to prove, girls see you differently than they see the other guys who give it all.

That’s why the pick up lines below work so well…

10. “Hi, how are you doing?”

I warned you.
It’s boring and lame.

And that’s why it works.

Because you do the opposite of what most of the other guys do (they try to prove themselves by being ultra original and sophisticated).

That’s why you stand out.

11. “Hi, what are you drinking?”

…by pointing at what they are drinking.

12. “Hi, you’re from <Name of the city>?”

You simply ask them if they are from here or if they’re on vacation in the area.

13. “Hi, do you see these two girls over there? Me and my buddy would like to talk to them but they look hard to approach. Do you know some secret tips that could help us?”

Useful to open girls who themselves look hard to approach.

Unlike the previous pick up lines, this pick up line is quite original, but remain effective.

Opening lines to start a conversation with a girl at a friends’ party:

Here it’s the same principe as approaching girls in a club or in a bar.

The difference is that at a friends’ party, girls are a lot easier to open. Because you’re already socially validated.

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You’ve been invited.
You have friends in common.
Therefore you’re not a complete stranger nor a creep.

As a result, girls feel much more at ease with you and are more receptive to your approach.

14. “(Hi,) are you friends of <Name of the person who gives the party>?”

A simple line who allows you to start a conversation in a natural and easy way.

15. “Where did you get that? It seems delicious.”

By pointing at what they’re drinking.

16. “You look like the kind of girls to hang out at <Name of a particular club>.”

You can for instance use this opener to open girls who are dancing in a certain fashion or who look like clubbers (it doesn’t even have to be the case, you can just say that in order to tease them).

Pick-up lines to open a girl in college or university:

In this kind of environment, you’re going to use indirect game.

Make sure to appear at the same place as her during a break:

At the coffee machine, at the cafeteria, at the smoking spot (I don’t smoke but the smoking spot offers many opportunities to start a conversation with a stranger), in front of a classroom while waiting for a teacher, etc.

It’s better if you use the pick up lines below on static girls. In other words on girls who are not on the move.

Because you know the girl will be available and you’ll have time to easily engage in a conversation with her.

Direct game is not adequate here because there’s too much social pressure.

It’s better to take it slower, without rushing the girl.

You’re going to see her every day or every week. You can therefore take your time.

Exception: if your college of university is very big (a big campus), you can approach girls like you would to approach random girls on the street.

But if your college or university is relatively small, it’s better to use exclusively indirect approaches.

Here are some pick up lines you can use to open a girl in college or university:

17. “Hi, weren’t you at Caroline’s party last weekend?”

18. “Aren’t you in Paul’s class?”

19. “I like your jeans, they suit you quite well.”

Pick up lines to start a conversation with a girl at work:

As you would do to approach a girl in college, you’re going to use indirect game.

Again, make sure to appear at the same place as her during a break:

At the coffee machine, at the cafeteria, at the smoking spot (I don’t smoke but the smoking spot offers many opportunities to start a conversation with a stranger), in the copy room, etc.

cheesy pick up linesIt’s better if you use the pick up lines below on static girls. In other words on girls who are not on the move.

Because you know the girl will be available and you’ll have time to easily engage in a conversation with her.

Direct game is not adequate here because there’s too much social pressure.

It’s better to take it slower, without rushing the girl.

You’re going to see her every day or every week. You can therefore take your time.

20. “Hi, weren’t you at the friday meeting by any chance?”

21. “Hi, we hardly ever run into each other, in what department do you work?”

20. “Good afternoon, nice dress, pretty fancy. Are you new here?”

Chat up lines to start a conversation with a girl on the Internet:

Here are some chat up lines to chat with girls on Tinder, Facebook, dating sites, and so on.

pick up lines tinderHere it is very important that you customize your approach in order to make her unique.

The girl must feel that this line is for her and only for her.

While not over investing.
Don’t give it all.

To do so, you’re going to use some parts of her profile details or her pics…

23. “Hi Julia, your shirt look very sexy and kind of original ;)”

24. “Hi 😉 You seems to love flashy colors. Is it to scare predators?”

25. “So you prefer dogs?”

If she wrote in her profile details that she prefers dogs to cats.

26. “Hi Julia 😉 You must be <name of a job>.”

(“You must be an accountant/a lawyer/a photographer/…”)

27. “Hi Julia 😉 you must be from <name of a country>.”

(“You must be from Italy/Swede/Spain/…”)

28. “Hi 🙂 A girl who loves classical dance and who plays piano, I like that. Sexy dress by the way, are you from <name of a country>?”

A good example of a solid pick up line you can use on a dating site.

What you absolutely need to understand in order to successfully approach a girl:

Your pick up line is only the beginning.

In fact, it’s only the beginning of the beginning.

What’s more, your pick up line it’s only words.

And these words, you can deliver them in a solid and masculine way, or in a fragile and weak way.

And the way you deliver them changes everything.

But that’s not all:

You must also know what to say after your opening line.

You must be able to catch the attention of the girl and arouse her interest.

And to do so, you must be able to get the conversation flowing.

Because the goal here is not simply to approach a girl.

The goal is to lead an exciting interaction with her, in order to take the interaction to something more intimate.

So don’t focus too much on your pick up line, because it’s only one aspect of your approach.

If you loved the advice you found in this article, I invite you to read this other article I prepared for you:

=> How To Turn A Girl On Sexually: The 13 BEST Ways (She Will Want You)

Turning a girl on is quite simple.

Did you know that you can turn on a girl quickly and easily, without putting much effort into it?

Well, in this article I’m going to share with you 13 powerful ways to turn women on and make them want you.

Some of these techniques will probably seem strange or counter-intuitive to you, but there are extremely effective.

You must test them in order to understand this.

It's all there:

=> How To Turn A Girl On Sexually: The 13 BEST Ways (She Will Want You)

Stay solid,
Jack


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