45 Questions To Ask A Girl (To Make Her Want To Hit On You)

What questions to ask a girl you like to make her want to hit on you?

What are the best questions to ask a girl to get to know her better (without sounding annoying)?

If you’re looking for a list of interesting questions to ask a girl to get her excited, you’re in the right place.

Use the questions below to spark her interest in you…and make her want to talk to you (and thus keep the conversation going).

Whether over text or in person.

Be careful though:

You must bring these questions in a way that seems natural (and not in a way that makes you sound weird…and cause the girl to distance herself, instead of making her want to chase you).

And that’s precisely what we’re going to see in this post as well.

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In other words, how to dominate women to make them wet with desire.

And NOT just in bed: you’re going to implement these small actions in other contexts and environments, be it after an approach, on a date, at a party, in your everyday life with your girlfriend or wife (or with your ex), and more… so that the woman you like sees you as a powerful dominant male who is able to satisfy her deepest desires and take her to seventh heaven.

...which is what is going to make her want to sleep with you…and even chase you.

Let’s get started.

1. When you were a child, what did you dream you’d become?

This question allows the girl relive childhood dreams and all the positive emotions associated with them.

It brings her back to childhood and makes her feel like a child in your presence.

For this question to sound natural, you can ask it right after she tells you what she does for a living (or what she wants to do later in life).

2. What is your best childhood memory?

Same principle as the previous question.

To bring this question in the most natural way, you can for instance ask it to her after you’ve talked about where she spent her childhood (or after asking the previous question).

By searching her memory, she’ll relive her fondest childhood memories, which will make her live positive emotions.

You can then discuss this memory and use it to get to know her better or even to tease her.

3. How do you see yourself in 5 years?

This question allows you to talk about her plans, what she wants to do with her life…

For instance, you can ask her this question after discussing what she’s currently doing in life.

However, avoid asking her this question right at the beginning of the date, it would sound too much like a job interview.

4. What countries have you visited?

This question allows her to travel, using her imagination (and memory).

It gets her thinking about all the trips she’s taken, and all the exciting emotions associated with them.

You can then ask her which of these countries she liked best, and why.

This opens the door to a whole host of topics that could potentially thrill her: tourist activities, food, and so on.

5. Which country would you like to visit right now?

Or: “If you could teleport, where would you want to travel to right now?”

You can play a little game imagining the two of you flying to a dream destination the night after your conversation.

This is a great way to make romantic (and even sexual) projections, and thus build sexual tension.

6. Do you have a boyfriend?

The goal with this question is not so much to get her talking, neither to figure out if she’s single or not… but to create sexual tension.

By asking her this question, you’re implicitly communicate to her that you see her as a potential girlfriend… which in turn will make her see you as a potential boyfriend.

This way, you increase the chances that she’ll see you as more than just a friend… and thus avoid the friend zone.

Now, you may be thinking, “I’m never going to ask her that question, I don’t want to come across as a guy who’s into her… I don’t want her to see me as a needy guy…”

Indeed, you don’t want her to see you as needy.

But just because you ask her this question doesn’t mean she’ll see you as such.

It depends on how you ask it.

If you ask her in a confident and relaxed way, you’ll sound as a charming high value guy who’s just curious about her.

7. Where did you grow up?

A good question to ask a girl to get her to tell you about her childhood.

If she’s a foreigner (a tourist, a student…), she’ll tell you about her country and you might learn a lot of interesting things.

This question also allows you to follow up in a natural way with questions 1 and 2 listed above.

8. Do you have brothers and sisters?

A question that allows you to get to know her better and eventually have her share some funny stories.

She’ll probably return the question, and you’ll be able to tell her about your siblings (or your cousins, if you don’t have a brothers and sisters).

She’ll then have the impression to know you better (which won’t just be an impression) and feel more comfortable around you (especially after you’ve mentioned your beloved little sister).

9. What are you up to?

A good question to ask a girl you’ve just approached (on the street for instance).

Why?

Because she’s going to give you some pieces of information that you’ll be able to use to talk about topics that are likely interest her.

Related: Conversation Topics With A Girl

For example, if she tells you that she’s going home, you can talk about the first thing she’s going to do when she gets home (watch Game of Thrones, do some sports…). If she tells you she’s coming back from work (or school), you can talk about what she’s doing in life (which job, what she’s studying…).

10. Are you from here?

Or: “Are you from L.A.?/New-York/London/…” (insert the name of the city where your interaction takes place)

Like the previous question, this is a good question to ask a woman you’ve just approached.

Because it’ll make her introduce you to a whole bunch of interesting topics you could talk about: where she’s from, what she’s doing in this city, what she does for a living…

You can see it as a springboard to other conversation topic that you might not have been able to bring up as naturally otherwise.

11. What do you do in life?

Simple, down to earth, effective.

If you’re wondering what questions to ask a girl to get to know her, start with this one.

It’s a question you can ask just about anytime, anywhere, to any girl…

…and which can lead to a whole bunch of exciting topics.

12. What do you do for fun?

This question allows you to get the girl to talk about things she likes to do, and therefore about topics that are likely to make her feel positive emotions (which was not necessarily the case with the previous question).

This is a good open-ended question to ask a girl you’ve just met, whether it’s right after your approach or on the first date.

13. What did you do on your vacation?

This question has the same benefits as the previous one.

A woman has usually a lot of free time during her vacation.

A lot of free time that she’ll use one way or another…like by doing stuff she likes to do (and talk about).

14. What do you plan to do on your vacation?

Same principle as with the previous question.

Except this time you’re talking about the future.

You’ll ask her this question if her vacations are to come, and the previous question if these vacations have just passed.

So it all depends on the context.

And if she doesn’t have a vacation or if it’s too far away in time, you can instead ask her one of the two following questions…

15. What did you do this weekend?

During the weekend, a woman usually has some free time.

And some of that free time will usually be occupied by things she likes to do…

…which, as you may have guessed, are excellent topics of conversation.

16. What are you planning to do this weekend?

You got the idea.

The great thing about this question and the previous three is that you can ask them easily and spontaneously, almost out of the blue.

17. Do you play sports?

A question that can lead to other great questions, such as:

“What is your favorite sport?”

“What are you looking for in sports?” (Is it purely to have a sexy body, or is she looking for something else?)

18. Are you into dance?

As with the previous question, this question can lead to other more interesting questions such as:

“What type of dance do you like best?” and then “Why?”

“What are you looking for in dance?”, “What emotions/sensations are seeking to experience?”

From there, you can sexualize the conversation by asking her what dance she finds most arousing, for instance.

19. Does this piece of jewelry/tattoo have any special meaning?

This is one of the best questions to ask a girl who has a tattoo or a piece of jewelry that stands out (in other words, not just a simple ring or common earrings).

This question allows you to probe her deep psychology by getting her to reveal certain aspects of her personality.

So a good question for getting to know a girl better.

20. What is your best quality?

A great question to get the girl to qualify herself.

It positions you as a guy who has options, as a guy who must choose between several girls and to do so should evaluate their different qualities.

It gets the girl to see you as the prize.

21. What is your biggest flaw?

Same principle as the previous question.

It subtly encourages the girl to qualify herself in your eyes (or rather here to not disqualify herself too much).

She might a little embarrassed and realize that she doesn’t want to appear completely lame in your eyes.

You can then tease her about her answer.

Or qualify her, by acknowledging her honesty, which is a rare quality.

22. What is your favorite movie?

Or: “What’s your favorite series?”

“What kind of movies do you watch?”

Or, if you want to be more specific: “Are you more into romantic comedies or horror movies?”

These kinds of questions give you insight into the girl’s personality and what thrills her.

Depending on her answer, you can tease her about her character, or about the dark (or pink) side of her personality.

To bring this question in a way that sounds natural, you can ask it after she tells you that she recently went to a movie or watched a series (for instance after your question “What did you do this weekend?”).

23. What is your favorite book?

Or: “What kind of books do you like to read?”

Same principle as the previous question.

Some girls prefer to read, some prefer to watch movies and series, some do both.

So adapt your questions to the girl you’re talking to.

24. What is your favorite food?

“What kind of food do you like?”

A good question to get the girl to relive positive feelings.

From this question, you can also bring up the topic of travel (for instance talk about Italy if she likes about pizza, talk about Spain if she likes tapas, talk about Japan if she likes sushi, and so on).

You can also tease her about her answer, for instance by telling her in a playful tone that it’s not very original and that you expected more sophistication from a girl like her. Or that it will never work between you because you have too different tastes.

25. What is your favorite cocktail?

You can use her answer to this question to make an assumption about her character:

“You like this cocktail…so you must be a girl who likes adventure.”

“You prefer this cocktail…so you must be a wise girl.”

This question and the previous one are easy questions you can ask when you’re having a drink or a snack with this girl (on your first date for instance).

26. Are you a sweet or savory person?

You can ask her this question when choosing a place for a date.

This question also allows you to tease her about her tastes and personality (for example, if she prefers salty food you can tell her that she must be a serious girl, and if she prefers sweet food you can tell her that she must be a girl who likes adventure).

27. Are you a summer or winter person?

Same principle as with the previous question, except that you’ll bring it differently.

For instance, you can ask it after you’ve discussed vacation or travel, or after you’ve talked about today’s weather.

As with the previous question, this question allows you to tease the girl about her personality (for instance, if she’s a winter girl you can tell her that she must be a serious girl, or that she must be a stay-at-home girl who likes when it’s cosy and warm; and if she prefers summer you can tell her that she must be the kind of girl who likes enjoying the sun and just sitting about doing nothing all day).

28. Are you a cat person or a dog person?

This question allows you to tease her about her character.

For instance, if she prefers cats you can tell her that she must be the kind of girl who likes to be snubbed (cats being very snobbish compared to dogs).

This question also allows you to play with her by disqualifying her:

“You prefer cats? It’s never going to work out between us…” said in a tone of disappointment, but with a little smirk.

29. What is your favorite color?

Another simple yet interesting question to ask a girl to know a little more about her personality.

You can for instance ask her this question after you’ve complimented her on one of her clothes or on her lipstick.

30. If you had a million dollars in your bank account, what would you do with it?

A cool question to ask a girl to make her dream, but also to get a glimpse of her personality and her relation to money.

Is she the kind of girl who is very careful with her spending and uses her money wisely, or the kind of girl who spends everything she has without thinking about the future?

31. What would be your ideal day?

The things this girl would do in her ideal day would probably be things that would give her some pleasure.

And thus interesting topics to explore.

You can ask her this question after she’s told you about how she spends her time, or if she complains about her day-to-day life, or after she tells you that she’s just come back from vacation and that it was too short (or that she doesn’t feel like going back to school or work).

32. Would you like to be famous?

A good question to ask a girl to get to know her better, as her answer will give you an idea of whether she’s more introverted and reserved, or extroverted and expansive.

33. If you were an animal, what would you be?

A good example of questions to ask a girl to make her laugh.

She’ll probably hesitate between several animals, and you’ll have a good laugh going over each one.

Why does she see herself being this animal rather than another?

You can tease her about her personality, or even play with her by disapproving and telling her that you see her more in this or that animal.

This is also a funny question to ask your girlfriend to have a fun conversation and lighten the mood.

34. What kind of music do you listen to?

A mundane question, but one that can lead to deeper and more personal questions, such as:

“What kind of emotions are you looking for in music?”

So a question that allows you to make the conversation more emotional.

35. What was the most embarrassing moment in your life?

The kind of fun questions to ask a girl to get her to think back to various unglamorous situations she’s been through.

By sharing them with you, she confides in you. This makes her feel a little vulnerable. And that creates a bond.

It brings back strong emotions (negative, of course, but also positive because you’re here to laugh about it, with tenderness, and with some distance… which makes the interaction rich in emotions).

36. What are your phobias?

A good example of questions to ask a girl to give her some chills.

Kind of like watching a horror movie in your presence.

37. What’s the craziest thing you’ve ever done in your life?

Among the questions to ask a girl to get her excited, this one is particularly effective.

With this question you’re not necessarily going to turn her on sexually (as with the hot questions below), but you’re going to turn her on emotionally.

She’ll relive an exciting moment in her life and all the emotions associated with it.

And these emotions, she’ll relive them in your presence.

On an emotional level, it’ll have the same effect as if she had lived this experience with you.

This is a great question to break the seriousness of a conversation (when it starts to get boring).

38. What’s the craziest thing you’ve ever done with a guy?

When you ask her this question, she’ll remember some crazy thing she’s done with a guy, which could be something pretty silly, sexually related or not.

It’s going to turn her on.

Like the previous question, this is an interesting question you can ask to break the seriousness of a conversation.

This question also allows you to transition to some of the hot questions to ask a girl we’re going to review below.

39. What was your worst date with a guy?

She’ll tell you about the worst date she’s ever been on, and you’ll take advantage of this moment to develop a certain complicity with her.

You’re no longer part of the potential weirdos she feels uncomfortable around, instead you’re part accomplices with whom she can share these embarrassing moments, laughing about it.

40. What turns you on the most in a guy?

Now we’re getting to the hot, flirty questions to ask a girl to turn her on sexually.

When you ask a woman what turns her the most in a guy, guess what: she’ll start imagining what actually turns her on the most in a man. Which will naturally make her horny.

She may return the question by asking you what turns you on the most in a woman.

Your answer will depend on the girl you’re hitting on.

You can mention purely physical attributes (breasts, buttocks… especially if this attribute is one of her assets).

You can also mention attitudes or mindsets that turn you on (for example, telling her that you are turned on by submissive women, or by women who are ready for anything, and so on).

41. What do you do to turn a guy on?

A powerful question to ask a girl you want to turn on.

She’ll think back to the last time she tried to turn on a guy (who was probably a guy she wanted), and this will naturally make her horny.

You can use her answer to build up the sexual tension even more, for instance by saying things like, “Interesting…” while looking deeply into her eyes, or, “Do you think this will work on me?” said in a slow, seductive voice.

42. Do you like massages?

You can ask her this question in order to massage her (giving a woman a massage is a great way to turn her on sexually), or just to get her to imagine what a good massage would feel like (and thus make her feel more relaxed, even aroused).

You can then ask her what what is her favourite body parts to have massaged.

You can then go even further and ask her what are her most erogenous body parts.

43. What is your favorite sex position?

A hot question that will make her think about sex (and what she likes in sex), and thus turn her on.

To bring this question in a natural way, you can start with more innocent questions, like the 3 previous ones.

44. What is your fantasy?

Does she have any fantasies?

What are they?

It doesn’t even have to be sexual fantasies: you can start by asking her about her fantasies in general, and only then ask her about her sexual fantasies.

45. Does being dominated turn you on?

You’d be surprised how much this simple question can make women horny (many women have submission fantasies).

If she asks you why you’re asking her that question, you can tell her it’s because you’re sexually attracted to submissive girls. If she likes to be dominated (most women do), you can be sure that this answer will turn her on and she’ll immediately see you as a potential sexual partner (and will be looking forward to have sex with you).

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And NOT just in bed:

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You’re going to implement this in your everyday life with the women you like so that they see you as a powerful dominant male who is able to satisfy their desires and take them to seventh heaven.

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