How To Text A Girl You Like: 25 Examples Of What To Text To A Girl (To Get Things Moving)

In this article, I’m going to share with you 25 examples of texts to send to a girl you like.

You’re going to discover how to text a girl you like in an exciting and confident way.

You’re going to learn how to text a girl for the first time, how to ask her out over text, how to text a girl you haven’t talked to in awhile, how to text a girl in order to turn her on

I’m going to share with you a myriad of text message examples you can send to a woman to get things moving.

Therefore you’ll be prepared to face any situation 😉

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Those examples can also be used to text a girl on WhatsApp, on Facebook Messenger, by email, etc.

How to text a girl you like? Let’s clarify things:

Like a lot of guys, in order to arouse a girl’s interest by texting you might have tried to send her some complex and over sophisticated texts…

Maybe you found some text message examples on various blogs or in Youtube videos…

Texts that were certainly original, but that sounded awkward…

Texts that didn’t sound very natural…

Or worse: texts that made you look like a clown or a needy guy.

You need to understand this: your text message doesn’t have to be original or sophisticated.

Girls don’t care.

how to text a girl you just metA solid guy who is conscious of his value and his ability to attract women doesn’t need to concern himself with that.

By acting in a solid way, the results you’ll get will be much better than the results you would have gotten by acting like a clown or a beggar.

You just need some simple text examples to use depending on the girl and the situation.

As well as some text examples that will inspire you to create your own texts.

Cause it’s always best not to use unchanged texts you’ve found on the internet.

You’ll notice that the texts I’m going to share with you below are relatively simple.

They are short, natural and not too much creative.

This is what makes them so effective.

Cause you actually don’t need to make a big effort to text a girl in an exciting way.

If you try too hard, you’re going look like a strange guy or like a guy who’s trying to prove something.

And guess what…

Women are good at feeling those kind of things.
Even remotely.

If you haven't done so yet, read this article in which I give you my 25 BEST tips to attract girls in a natural yet effective way. It will help you make huge progress in your interactions with women (especially with feminine women).

Well…

Let’s get started with the texts I promised you…

• Messages to text a girl for the first time:

You’ve met this gorgeous girl…

She gave you her phone number…

Now it’s your job to send her the first text.

There are number of ways to do it, depending on the girl and the context of the interaction you had with her before she gave you her number.

Here are some examples of first texts you can send to her:

It was nice meeting you 😉 Jack

Simple and effective.

This text doesn’t put pressure on her to answer you back.
She doesn’t feel pushed to do it.

Most of the time, if there was a good vibe during the first interaction, the girl replies.

Are you always that nice when meeting new people?

An effective text to get in touch with a girl you approached and who let you her number.

You’re asking her a question, so you invite her to answer your text, but not in a pushy way.

This text is quite light and shows social intelligence.

Got home okay last night? Jack

This may seem like a safe and boring message but this kind of text works quite well to get back in touch with a girl you met at a party.

It’s natural and rooted in the context.

It was nice meeting you, I can’t help but think of the shape of your legs… I couldn’t plenty focus on my work today, you have a bad influence on me young lady! 😉

Polite and bold at the same time.

An effective combo to generate excitation.

The girl feels that you’re a solid and confident guy who isn’t afraid to express his desire.

“You have a bad influence on my young lady” shows social intelligence.
The girl understands that you are a normal guy, and not some kind of pervert.

Your message tells her in a subtle way that sex is not your priority.

A bold message then, but subtle (further down I’m going to share with you other examples of bold messages).

It was nice meeting you, I can’t help but think of your dress… It didn’t leave me indifferent 😉

The same style as the previous one, but a little softer.

Sign or not?

Is it better to end your message with your name? Or to leave it blank?

To put it short:

For the first text, it is better to sign, using your name. In case the girl wouldn’t have saved your number into her phone or would have forgot your name (it can happen after a slightly alcohol-tinged evening).

So if in doubt, end your first text with your name.

Apart from that, it’s not necessary.

And it’s better if you don’t do it, because it will sound natural.

Do you sign the texts you send to your friends?

Do you sign the texts you send to your fuck buddies?

Do you sign the texts you send to your girlfriend?

No.

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You’re now in possession of several examples of messages to send to a girl for the first time.

Adapt them to the girl and to the situation.

Let’s now dive into the texts you can send to a girl to invite her to a date…

• Messages to ask a girl out:

How to text a women for a date?

You’ve sent the first text to the girl you like…
She has answered you back…
You’ve run through a nice little text exchange…

Now, what text can you send to ask her out?

How to take her on a date?

That’s what we’re going to see here… :

A new bar opened down town, I want to see that. Are you free tomorrow at 6pm?

Simple, effective and exciting: you suggest to try something new (the new bar).

It’s more than a simple date, it’s an adventure.

Are you free tomorrow at 6pm for a walk? It’s going to be a beautiful sunny day.

Simple, easy going and natural.

It’s going to be a sunny day, you suggest enjoying it by having a little walk.

For instance, I used this kind of text to have a little walk on a sunny saturday with a girl I met in a club the night before.

Are you free wednesday at 5pm to grab a coffee at Coffee Shop X?

Simple and effective.

It might seem common and boring, but again, this why it works so well.

Do you try to come up with ultra sophisticated or original texts when you invite your friends or your girlfriend to go out with you?

Of course not.

It would even sound strange.

By keeping it simple, you show to the girl that you are a normal guy. Not a crazy pick up artist or a guy who tries to trick girls into liking him.

I have to do a little shopping tomorrow to buy a new pair of gloves. Would you like to join me?

This text is easy to send and doesn’t make you vulnerable.

It doesn’t either put pressure on the girl.
Because whatever her answer might be, you’re going to do your shopping.

You simply invite her to join you.

Whether she accepts or not isn’t going to change anything to your mission (to buy a new pair of gloves, in our example).

This text has also an exciting touch: you suggest a quest (finding gloves). A quest to which you invite the girl to participate and help you.

I want to taste some cocktails downtown. Are you coming with me?

You express without shame your desire: drink some cocktails downtown.

And you ask the girl if she wants to join you for this relaxing time.

This proposition is brought in an exciting way, since it’s made with an authoritative tone.
It makes the girl feel your dominant personality.

You express without shame your desire.

And you honor her by inviting her to join you.
You choose her among all the other girls to keep you company.

I’ve just downloaded <name of a movie that girls like>, would you like to come watch it with me?

Not very original, but if there’s a good vibe between you and the girl, she’s going accept with enthusiast.

What is very advantageous about this text is that the girl is going to come to your place. Which is good if you want to have sex with her.

I’ve everything needed in my kitchen to cook <name of a dish that girls like> but it’s a bit too copious for one person. Are you free on Tuesday evening?

A little more original and funny than the previous examples, while remaining simple and natural.

Here’s another variant:

I’ve everything needed in my kitchen to cook <name of a dish that girls like> but I’m going to need an assistant in order to cook it 😉 Are you free on Tuesday evening?

Well…

You’re now in the possession of several examples of what to text a girl you like in order to see her on a date.

Adapt them to the girl and the situation.

• Messages for a girl you haven’t seen in months:

There are probably some girls that you have lost of sight…

Some attractive girls with whom you would like to get back in touch…
In order to ask them out and move the relationship to the next level.

But before that… You’re going to need to “reactivate” the girl.

You’re going to initiate contact again.
You’re going to refresh her memory about you and arouse her interest

Because a girl you haven’t talked to in awhile is not going to feel such at ease and excited as a girl with whom you’ve recently lived an exciting interaction.

In order to reactivate her, you’re going to send her a text that suggests that you accidently thought about her.

Here we go:

I just came across your favorite restaurant. Are you still alive?

You just came across her favorite restaurant and therefore you thought about her. And that’s why you’ve decided to send her a text.

You trigger positive emotions by mentioning her favorite restaurant. And you kind of playfully ask her how she’s going (by asking her if she’s still alive)

I just came across your favorite bar 😉 How is it going?

In the same vein as the message above.

I just saw this nice pic of you on Instagram, you have to tell me about it 🙂

You just saw an interesting of her on Instagram or Facebook (of her holiday, her trip, an interesting venue she went to, etc.).

And you use this as a pretex to get back in touch with her.

The play starts at 9pm, Julia got us the tickets. Don’t be late 😉

This one is very ingenious.

You purposely make a mistake by sending this text to the wrong person (the girl you want to reactivate).

When she replies, you just says to her that you made a mistake and that this text was for another girl or for a friend of yours.

You can then ask her how she’s going and start a conversation.

This text has another purpose: social proof. It shows (or at least it implies) that you live an interesting life and that you have some friends with whom you do exciting things.

It is quite powerful to text a hot girl you want to hook up with.

Let’s now move on texts you can send to turn a girl on…

• Sexting messages to send to a girl:

If you’re playful and that you want to turn a girl on over text, you’re going to love what I’m going to share with you here.

I’m going to share with you powerful sexting messages to turn on girls.

You can send one of the following messages to a girl you just met, to girl of your social circle, to your girlfriend, etc.

Those texts are very effective to avoid being friend zoned.

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You make her feel – without shame – that you find her attractive and that something might happen between you and her.

Exactly what the weak guys don’t dare to do. Since they are afraid to “rush” the girl and to be rejected.

Let’s go:

I can’t help thinking of your legs… Do you work out?

In this example, you compliment the girl on her legs, in a quite bold way.

You invite her to answer you back, by asking her if she works out.

This question has another purpose: it allows you to make your bold compliment more easily.

That is quite useful if you’re not much at ease with this kind of bold compliments.

You mention the legs of the girl because you want to know if she works out.

Note: you don’t even have to ask if she works out. You can simply send her the compliment as such: “I can’t help thinking of your legs.”

It’s up to you.

You have a very sexy booty. Do you work out?

In the same spirit, but bolder.

The girl feels sexually attractive in your eyes.

And she gets turned on.

I can’t help thinking of your dress. You looked very hot in it.

In the same vein as the previous messages.

You compliment her on her dress. And you mention the fact that you found her very hot.

You’re becoming more and more attractive. (if you just talked about what she was doing in life, about her passions, her projects, her dreams, her job, her studies, etc.)

A subtle way to pay her a compliment (other than on her physical beauty).

You show her that you value her personality.

What are you wearing right now?

The best time to send this message is at the time when she’s in bed. Cause at the time, it’s likely that she’ll be dressed very light.

This kind of text leads the girl to give you an opening so that you can point to the fact that she must be very sexy, dressed this way.

Very effective to raise the temperature.

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Prove me that you’re in bed. (to send right after she said where she was or what she was doing)

The goal here is to get the girl to send you a picture of her in bed.

Very effective to turn the conversation into an exchange of pics which will be hotter and hotter 😉 (the girl has to prove you that she’s in bed by sending you a picture of her lying on her bed).

What are your favorite techniques to turn a guy on?

By asking her this question, you get her to imagine how she would proceed to turn a man on.

As a result, she’s going to think of a way to turn on a guy she’s attracted to (because most of the time a woman is going to want to turn on a man when she’s attracted to him).

By asking her this kind of question, you allow her to get turned on by her imagination.

What turns you on sexually in a man?

By asking her this kind of question, you get her to visualize and feel what turns her the most in a man.

This way, you allow her to get turned on in a similar way than the previous example.

Well…

You’re now in possession of examples of solid sexting messages to turn on girls you like.

Now…

What you need to understand when you text a girl you like:

Don’t overdo it.

message after a long timeYour goal is not to engage in an endless virtual conversation.

Your goal is to successfully ask the girl out to see her in a face-to-face interaction.

So that you can interact with her in the real life.

So that you can turn the interaction into something more sexual.

If you delay too long the real interaction, the girl is going to feel bored and chances are she’ll end up seeing you as just a friend.

Hence the importance to proceed in a solid and effective way.

If you loved the advice you found in this article, I invite you to read this other article I prepared for you:

=> How To Turn A Girl On Sexually: The 13 BEST Ways (She Will Want You)

Turning a girl on is quite simple.

Did you know that you can turn on a girl quickly and easily, without putting much effort into it?

Well, in this article I’m going to share with you 13 powerful ways to turn women on and make them want you.

Some of these techniques will probably seem strange or counter-intuitive to you, but there are extremely effective.

You must test them in order to understand this.

It's all there:

=> How To Turn A Girl On Sexually: The 13 BEST Ways (She Will Want You)

Stay solid,
Jack


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