How To Turn A Girl On Over Text: 18 Hot Sexting Examples

If you wonder how to turn a girl on over text, read carefully what follows…

I’m going to share with you 18 good examples of texts to turn a girl on

how to text a girlYou can use one or several of these text messages to turn on a woman you want to bed.

You can use these texts as sms, as messages on a chat, as e-mails… There are many possibilities.

If you do it well, the girl might even invite you to join her at her home in order to seal the deal and release the sexual tension you’ll have created through your messages.

How to turn a girl on over text – Here is the key:

The key to turn a girl on with texts is to show audacity

While at the same time showing enough social intelligence, in order that the girl perceives your audacious messages as acceptable.

You are a strong and powerful man who isn’t afraid to express his desires.

You’re not ashamed of finding a woman attractive and to declare it to her.

But there’s more…

You also have the choice.

You have the choice of the women you wish date or bed.

As a result, if a girl rejects your advances, it doesn’t affect you that much.

Some of the texts you’re going to discover below are (very) bold.

And that’s precisely why they are so effective.

What you need to understand though is that you’re not going to send these bold messages from the outset.

You’re not going to send these bold messages up front.

First, you’re going to heat things up, so that your bold sext messages be well received.

By proceeding in this manner, the girl will get easily turned on and might even outpace you in your suggestive messages.

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Some of the texts below can be sent in a row (especially the first ones). Others can be combined together.

Let’s go:

1. A first arousing text message:

Let’s start out gently with a first text you can send to a girl you just met.

“It was nice meeting you, I can help thinking about your dress… I couldn’t plenty concentrate on my work today, you have a bad influence on me young lady! ;)”

A great text to initiate the text conversation with a girl you approached earlier in the day.

By reminding her that you find her attractive, you powercharge right away the interaction with sexual energy.

2. A text to test her availability:

If she is alone, she’s potentially available for sexting.

Thus, you can start turning her on by sending her sexy texts:

– You: “Are you alone?”
– Her: “Yes”
– You: “Hmmm I wish I could be here with you”

On the other hand, if she’s not alone, you’ll have to postpone the sexting:

– You: “Are you alone?”
– Her: “No”

Important note:

The best time of the day to turn a girl on over text is the evening, rather late.

Because at this time of the day, chances are that the girl is alone. And that she isn’t really busy.

Thus she is available to exchange messages with you and get turned on (and possibly touch herself).

On the other hand, if she is at work, in class or with friends, you won’t get the same results.

What’s more, if she’s not alone, you won’t be able to implement some of the techniques we’re going to see below.

So keep in mind that the best time of the day to send sext messages to a girl is the evening, during the week (during the weekend she’s likely to be busy with friends).

how to seduce a girl over text messages

3. A text to feel her out:

– You: “What are you doing?”
– Her: “Just screwing around on Facebook.”

– You: “What are you doing?”
– Her: “Nothing special, just lying on my bed.”

Basically if she answers you that she’s just screwing around, or that she isn’t doing anything special, or that she’s reading, or that she’s ‘trying’ to study, it’s all good.

Indeed, if she’s alone and has the time to send you some texts, she’s available.

4. What is she wearing?

– You: “What are you wearing?”
– Her: blablabla
– You: “Hmmm you must look very sexy right now”

A great question to ask her late in the evening, when she’s likely to be in scantily clad or light clothing.

It allows you to naturally heat up things.

You can even ask for a picture of her on the spot and then start to exchange pics that will get hotter and hotter.

– You: “Send me a picture.”
– Her: *she sends you a picture*
– You: “Hmmm, very sexy.”
– Her: blablabla
– You: “Let me see what’s under these leggings” / “Let me see what is under this top”
– Her: “Haha not so fast :p”
– You: “I’m waiting.”
– Her: “And why am I the only one to send pics??”
– You: “All right you deserved a little pic of me.”
– You: *you send a picture of you*
– Her: blablabla
– You: “I’m waiting for the pic.”
– Her: *she sends you a hotter pic*

And so it goes on.

If the girl isn’t yet on her bed and/or isn’t dressed in light clothing, you can phrase the question this way:

– You: “What do you wear when going to bed?”
– Her: blablabla
– You: “Rather thong or panty?”
– Her: blablabla
– You: “What color?”
– Her: blablabla

5. In what clothes she feels most sexy?

– You: “What are the clothes you feel the most sexy in?”
– Her: “Hmmm nighties…”
– You: “Interesting…”
– Her: “Tight-fitting dress as well”
– You: “Indeed you must be pretty hot in this kind of dress…”

An easy question that allows you to heat things up bythereafter sexualizing the conversation.

You suggest how sexy she might be, dressed that way.

And this way, she is going to get aroused.

By feeling desired and attractive in your eyes, she’s going to get hooked and become more and more horny.

6. Cuddles:

– You: “Do you like cuddles?”
– Her: “It depends on my mood, but when the time is right, yes”
– You: “Who do you like to cuddle with the most?”
– Her: blablabla
– You: “How does it make you feel?”

A question that allows you to make her feel things she would feel during a cuddle, by using her imagination.

This way, she’s going to start to feel relaxed, and then progressively turned on by those imagined sensations.

7. Has she ever be groped discreetly?

– You: “Have you ever been groped or touched discreetly by a man in a club or in a crowded place?”
– Her: “Hmmm it happened”
– You: “Tell me more”
– Her: blablabla
– You: “I’m jealous of him ;)”

A great question to create sexual tension.

Women usually remember the times when they get groped or touched, even when it was by accident.

8. Her secret technique to turn on a man:

– You: “What is your secret technique to turn on a man?” / “What’s your favorite way of arousing a man you like?”
Her: blablabla
– You: “Not bad”
– Her: blablabla
– You: “I don’t know if it would work for me. Tell me more, I need more details ;)”

By asking this question, you get the girl to visualize what she would do to arouse a man.

As a result, she’s going to condition herself to get horny, all by herself.

And the more vividly she’s going to visualize what she would do – or the more she’s going to think about it – the more she’s going to get turned on (and the more she’s going to qualify herself by trying to show you how skilled she is).

That’s why it’s a great text to turn on a girl.

9. Does she easily let go when she’s horny?

– You: “Have you ever kissed a guy just because you were excited on the moment?”
– Her: “Hmmm that happened”

If she gives you a positive answer, it means that she can easily let go when she’s aroused. And thus that it will be easy for you to bed her just by making her feel the right emotions.

10. A text to feel her out (advanced level):

– You: “If a guy would offer to come to your place right now to kiss you, would it make your horny?”

If she gives you a positive answer, it’s a clear sign that you can go to her place and seal the deal.

If she gives you a negative answer (or that she answers you in an evasive way), you should heat things up a little more before taking this to the next step.

how to turn a girl on over text

By phrasing the question in the third person (thus without directly involving you), the girl will feel more comfortable and will be more likely to let go.


Because she’s less likely to look like a pushover or a whore by giving you a positive answer.

11. The first body part she looks at in a man:

– You: “Which is the first body part below shoulders you look at in a man?”

This question can make agirl horny by getting her to visualize the body of a man and especially what she would look at first (in other words to visualize the body part that would turn her on the most).

Following the reply of the girl, you can ask her why she would look at this body part first.

You can ask her what she finds so arousing in this body part.

And so on.

She may ask you the same question, by asking you what is the first thing you look at in a girl:

In that case, go straight to the point.

Your goal is to sexualize the conversation in a strong and masculine way.

Answer her by mentioning a body part that has sexual connotation: for instance her breast, her buttock, her lips (it will actually depend on the body of the girl you’re texting: if she has a big breast, you can tell her that breast is the first thing you look at, if she has a nice ass, you can tell her that buttock is the first thing you look at, etc.).

The goal here is to get the girl to feel desired and beautiful into your eyes.

This is how you’re going to make her really horny.

12. Does she prefer briefs or boxers?

– You: “Do you prefer briefs or boxers?”
– Her: “Boxers / Briefs” (in most cases she’ll tell you that she prefers boxers)

Then, regardless of her answer, text her what you’re wearing.

– You: “Right now I’m wearing boxers”

The goal of this question is to get the girl to visualize your private parts. Which is going to make her think about sex and thus make her horny.

Her answer doesn’t really matter.

13. The area of her body that is the most erogenous:

– You: “If there were only one area of your body a man should touch to make you horny, which one would it be?”

A straightforward question that directly leads the girl to think about sex.

So a great question to turn a girl on.

If she gives you a honest answer, it’s a sign she’s already turned on.

14. What must a man do to make her wet:

– You: “What must a man do to make you wet?”
– Her: “Hmmm… Touching me, caressing some areas of my body…”

Then you use the previous question (No. 13) to encourage her to expand on her answer and thus make her even hornier.

That’s a powerful question to turn a girl on over text.

15. Can a massage make her wet?

Good to know: a nice full body massage makes most women horny.

Hence the interest in making her think about it.

– You: “Can a massage make you wet?”
– Her: blablabla
– You: “For the record, I was tops in massage.”
– Her: blablabla
– You: “I would love to give you a nice massage. And don’t worry: I now know that massages make you wet, I’ll dwell on your erogenous zones.”

Audacious and arousing.

That’s great if you want to build sexual tension and heat things up fast.

16. The accidental kiss:

– You: “If I happened to kiss your lips by accident when kissing you goodbye, would you have a problem with it?”

A question which allows you to get the girl to picture you kissing her on the lips.

So a great question to turn on a girl you like.

17. Oral sex:

– You: “Do you prefer when it’s the guy who takes care of you or when it’s you who takes care of the guy?”
– Her: “Hmmm I like to take care of guys”
– You: “And I like being taken care of”

If you’ve reached a point where the girl is already horny, you can use a more explicit language:

– You: “What do you prefer: sucking or being licked?”

how to turn on a girl over textWhatever her answer is, reply in such a way to be complementary with her:

If she answers you that she prefers to suck, tell her that you like to be sucked.

And if she answers you that she prefers to be licked, tell her that you like to lick.

18. If I whispered these questions in your ear…

– You: “If I whispered all these questions in your ear, would it make you horny?”

If you already asked her some of those questions, the girl is obviously already aroused.

What is great about this question is that it leads the girl to verbalize the fact that it makes her horny. Which is going to make her even hornier.

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