How To Make A Girl Fall For You Over Text [2 Simple Steps]

How to make a girl fall far you over text?

What text to make her fall in love?

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If you want to make a woman obsessed with you over text, there are 2 things you need to do:

  1. Start by sending her a message like the one you’re going to discover below…
  2. Then add the secret ingredient I’m going to reveal to you in the second part of this article…which will make her start obsessing over you (even if—especially if—a lot of other guys are hitting on her).

It’s simple, but extremely effective.

Because it taps directly into the psychology of addiction (dut don’t worry, it’s ethical).

Let’s start right away with the first step, with…

A nice text to make her fall in love


This message alone isn’t be enough to make her obsessed with you.

To make a woman fall in love with you over text, you have to do something else in addition, which we’ll see right after.

But first, let’s start at the beginning:

Planting a seed in the girl’s mind, which will gradually grow into a feeling of love.

This seed, you’re going to plant it by sending her a very particular message.

A message in which you’re going—more or less subtly—to express your interest in her.

So that she considers you as a potential lover.

And that she feels that something could potentially happen between you and her (and if something has already happen, that she feels that you might be serious about her).

Here’s an example of text you can send her to plant this seed.

“It was nice meeting you, I can’t help but think of your smile… I couldn’t fully concentrate on my work today, you are a bad influence on me young lady ;)”

This is also a good example of flirty message to send to a girl you just met.

You give her a little compliment that indicates that she doesn’t leave you indifferent (and that you’re not ashamed to show it)…

…to which you add a touch of humor so that she also feels that you don’t take her too seriously.

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If you already know the girl, just delete the first part (the “It was nice meeting you”) and keep the rest.

Of course, the text above is just an example, so that you get the idea. It should be adapted according to your personality, your style, and what you find attractive in this woman (in my example, I used her smile, but it can be anything else: one of her clothes that you found sexy, her gaze, her lips, etc.).

Note: you’ll find other examples of texts you can send to a woman you like in this post (including texts to make her think about you).

How to make her obsessed with you over text: the secret ingredient

Now that you’ve express your interest in this woman with a first message, she knows that you like her.

She sees you as a guy with whom something could potentially happen.

But it doesn’t mean that she’s herself interested in you yet.

That’s where this second step comes in.

With the secret ingredient that allows you to create a strong love desire in a woman.

If you’re wondering how to make a woman fall in love with you remotely, pay close attention to what comes next.

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This psychological trick is not only powerful, it is also extremely simple.

It just consists in…

showing disinterest.

By suddenly becoming distant.

For instance, by stopping sending her messages (don’t text her for a few days, or more).

Or by taking more and more time to answer her texts.

Or by making your texts shorter and shorter.

Or by including signs of disinterest in your texts.

So that she doesn’t understand what’s going on.

And that she feels (or thinks) that you’re slipping away from her.
And that you might not be interested in her after all (or you might not be interested in her anymore).

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That’s when the magic happens:

This girl who saw you as a potential romantic partner suddenly feels rejected by you.

Your indifference intrigues her.

And she can’t help but feel the need to win you back.

See also: How To Make A Girl Fall For You [11 Psychological Tricks]

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Put yourself in her shoes:

She was already starting to imagine a possible relationship between you and her…and now you’re acting like she doesn’t exist anymore.

Or worse: as if you had met another woman.

This can drive a girl crazy.
Even if she wasn’t particularly interested in the first place.

See also: 8 Psychology Tricks To Make Any Woman Obsessed

By the way, this last point is so powerful that I’ll dedicate an entire section of this post to it…:

How to make a girl jealous over text?

If you want to make the girl you like completely crazy about you, you can use jealousy.

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She’ll feel that other women are competing for your attention and affection, which will make her want to fight for your attention and affection as well. To prove to you that she’s better than the others.

She’ll see you as a guy that women want, which will directly influence her desire for you (scientists call this phenomenon “mate choice copying”).

To dig deeper in the topic of jealousy (and how you can use it in your text conversations with the women you like), go check out this extensive article.

[MUST-READ] Be DOMINANT with Women: Know How to MASTER Them (In Everyday Life) to Make Them Fantasize About You

If you enjoyed this article (and even if you didn’t), you’ll love this other extensive post I recently published:

>> Be DOMINANT with Women: Know How to MASTER Them (In Everyday Life) to Make Them Fantasize About You

There’s something you need to understand:

Women want to be submissive.

They fantasize about sexual submission.

And when they meet a dominant man who has the potential to satisfy their submission fantasies, it makes them desire him intensely.

Sounds shocking or surprising to you?

Keep reading…

Today, you’re going to learn how to master women in a way that will turn them on.

You’re going to learn how to dominate women to make them wet with desire.

And NOT just in bed:

You’re going to implement this in other contexts and environments, be it after an approach, on a date, at a party, and more.

You’re going to implement this in your everyday life with the women you like so that they see you as a powerful dominant male who is able to satisfy their desires and take them to seventh heaven.

These actions you’re going to implement daily with the girls you want will lead them to see you as THE man to date.

You’ll stand out.

Women will see you as a potential lover and as a good lay (and that’s a bit of an understatement).

However, there are things you need to understand first.

You’ve got to be ready to try certain things that are a bit bold (more or less depending on the girl and the situation).

It's all there:

>> Be DOMINANT with Women: Know How to MASTER Them (In Everyday Life) to Make Them Fantasize About You

Stay solid,

About the Author

Expert in male-female relationships and passionate about evolutionary psychology, Jack Vitel has been helping for over 10 years men of all ages regain control of their sexual and love lives. He is known for his unique concept of solidity, which allows men to naturally attract the women they want by tapping into their inner masculine potential.