How To Seduce A Woman: The Definitive Guide (+ 2 BIG Traps To Avoid)

Today, we’re going to see how to seduce a woman in a solid (and fast) way.

We’re going to talk about solid attraction.

Because being able to seduce girls is great…

But if you act like a weak guy, you won’t get very far.

No matter how many seduction techniques you know.

charm a womanIf you display fragility, you’ll have a hard time attracting feminine women.
In other words the women you want to seduce as a solid guy.

Because as a solid man, you want to seduce real women.

Real women are attracted to real men.

And a real man radiates solidity.
A real man seduces in a solid way.

And in this article, we’re going to see precisely what you should do to seduce a woman in a solid way.

Not seduce her like a wimp…

Not seduce her by being shamed…

Not seduce her in a roundabout way…

But seduce her in a SOLID way.

Seduce her as a real man.
Proud of who he is.
Proud of his masculinity.

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That’s the way you’ll attract attractive women.
Women that will help you grow as a man.
Women who won’t constantly try to break your balls.

how to seduce a woman with wordsA solid man commands respect.
He sets the game.

And women love this.

And whatever certain women may say, it’s by putting your balls on the line that you’ll be able to seduce women in a solid and effective way.

But as you can imagine, you should do it in a certain manner.
And that’s what we’re going to see in below…

Let’s start by running through two fatal mistakes that many guys make when trying to seduce girls they find attractive…

How to seduce a woman: 2 BIG traps to avoid

Before giving you the solid receipt to seduce attractive women, I must share with you the 2 main traps in which fall most of guys when trying to attract a woman they want.

Most often, it’s one of these two mistakes that prevent them to hook up with women they want.

Many guys are aware that they must not make those mistakes, but most of them ignore how to avoid them (and that’s precisely what I’m going to show you below)…

Let’s start by the first mistake:

The first mistake guys make when trying to seduce a woman they find attractive is…

To fall into the FRIEND ZONE.

In other words, to act in a fashion that gets the girl to see you as nothing more than a friend.

“Sorry, but I’d rather just be friends…”

What you need to understand is that although you’re liketly to still be attracted to the girl several months after meeting her, if you did nothing to make her feel that something was going on between you and her, the game is probably already lost.

At this point, the girl will sees you as a mere friend.
Just like one of her female buddies.

There’s a big difference between men and women that you need to understand:

Men are mostly attracted by the physical beauty of the women (let’s not be hypocrites).

As for the women, they’re mostly attracted by masculinity of men.

And if you constantly act as one of her female friends, the girl you want to seduce won’t be able to feel your masculinity.

She won’t be attracted to you and will put you in her friend zone.

And you won’t be able to seduce her anymore.

It reminds me of a good friend who always planed to befriend the girls in order to become (or to try to become) her boyfriend afterward…

He would spend months building a (friendly) relationship with the girl, developing complicity, spending time with her, etc.

It would often last 4, 5, 6 months…

To ultimately failing to take the relationship to the next level.

The girl would either reject him, or be picked up by another guy even before he could try anything.

And this isn’t surprising.
Cause at this point, the girl simply saw him as a friend.

A very good friend, sure, but still a friend.
Just like one of her female friends.

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He rushed unwillingly (or should I say willingly) into the friend zone.

And in retrospect, it’s not difficult to see why such behavior kills attraction:

Deep down, women are looking for a man.
They are looking for a male figure. Virile and solid.

And when you do nothing to convey those traits, the girl can hardly feel any attraction.

But there’s more…

When you do everything to avoid confrontation
When you choose to first befriend her and become her best friend…
You look like a coward.

You show to the girl that you lack courage…
You show to the girl that you don’t have the balls to act as a man.

This is what leads girls to treat you like a pussy.

To seduce a woman in a solid way, she must see you as a potential lover, and not as a potential best friend.

Remember this.

Now let’s talk about the second mistake guys make when trying to seduce women…

The second mistake guys make when trying to seduce a woman they find attractive is…

To act like a desperate guy.

To act like a needy guy.

To act like a man who is completely into her.

Everything from the really desperate attitude to the sticking around kind of behavior.

Either way, you look like a beggar.

And when a guy adopt this behavior with a girl, she feels that something is going wrong with him.

She feels that he’s going to take her value, rather than bringing her some.

In the end, she feels that the guy is weak.
She feels that he’s fragile.

And as you might expect, it’s not attractive.

Sure, if the guy makes understand right away to the girl that he’s interested, he won’t be seen as just a friend, and that way he won’t fall into the friend zone. BUT since he’ll have acted in a desperate fashion, he won’t either be seen as a potential lover.

The girl won’t be attracted at all.
She’ll be completely turned off.

Frankly, how can she be sexually attracted by a guy who act like this?

how to seduce a girlSo make sure you don’t act like a desperate guy:

Make sure you don’t look needy.

The best way to do so is simply not to be needy.

Don’t make women your priority.
Put your projects and your dreams first.

This is by putting what really matters for you before women that you’re going to grow as a solid man to whom women are naturally attracted.

When you have plans that keep you motivated and moving forward, you’re much less likely to act like a needy guy.

Because at this point, you’ll be detached from the results of the interactions you live with girls.

Unlike the guys whose life revolves around women, you’ll have greater plans than just getting into a relationship or fucking a girl.

Women will see (and feel) that and treat you as a high value man.
They will treat you as a solid guy and give in into your solidity.

So much for the two big mistakes that keep men from seducing women they’re really attracted to.

Now that we ran through these two big traps, let’s get serious.

Let’s set up a solid assault plan that will wipe out the likelihood to fall into one of those traps.

How to seduce women in a SOLID way:

Now I’m going to share with you two keys that will immunize you against what we just saw.

By implementing these two keys into your way of acting, you’ll be sure not to fall into the friend zone, while being sure not to be seen as a needy guy.

You’ll be sure that you won’t leave them indifferent.

You’ll be sure that they’ll see you differently than most of the other guys.

You’ll be sure that they’ll become attracted to you in some way or another.

Cause they’ll feel your SOLIDITY.

They’ll feel you’ masculinity.
This true masculinity that is missing in so many guys.

Without further ado, let’s get started with the first key:

• Key number 1: Express your desire

The woman you want to seduce should feel as early as possible that something is going on between you and her.

To this end, you must express your desire early in the interaction.

You must announce her in a more or less straight-forward way that you find her attractive.

Without being ashamed by your desire.
In other words, by being completely at ease with what you say.

An effective way to do this is to compliment her:

A good compliment is very effective to make a girl feel that something is going on between you and her.

In order that your compliment has the desired effect, you’re going to customize it based on the girl and the context:

You can compliment the girl on her clothes, on her hair, on her jewelry, or even pay her a bolder compliment directly on her physique (on her eyes, her legs, etc.).

For instance:

  • “I like your dress, I find it very sexy…”
  • “I like your jeans, very sexy…”
  • “You have very sexy lips…”
  • Etc.

If you want to make her a bold compliment directly on her physique and that you’re not very at ease with this sort of things, you can end your sentence with a question that is linked to this compliment.

For instance:

“You have beautiful legs, do you work out?”

A good compliment is a compliment that suggests that you find the girl sexually attractive.

Such compliments are very effective to turn a woman on (much more than compliments on personality, that you could do to either men or a women).

beautiful womanYou make her feel that there’s something in her that you find sexually attractive.

It puts into her head a possible relationship with you.

It leaves the rest of the interaction very exciting.

And it gets the girl to feel your masculinity.

This is how she’s going to feel a powerful masculine energy that is going excite her femininity and make her want you.

And at this point, the girl will be attracted to you like a magnet.

Under the condition of…
(and that leads us to the second key…)

• Key number 2: Not being needy

If you act like a needy guy, the girl you want to seduce will see you like… a needy guy.
She will see you like a desperate guy.

And as you have understood, this must be avoided.

You must act in a way that the girl understands (or at least believes…) that you don’t need her.

It is crucial that she understands that you’re not completely into her.

Unlike all those fragile and desperate guys who would do everything to get into a relationship with her.

You stay SOLID.

You express your desire in a calm and confident way.

You find her attractive, but if she’s not interested it won’t affect you much.

It won’t distract you from your life’s mission.

And at that point, the girl will instantly place you above all the other guys more of less needy she’ll have come across so far.

She’ll feel much more at ease and relax by your side.

And she’ll just give in into you.

She’ll yield to your solidity.

She’ll allow herself to fully express her femininity.

And at that stage, having sex with her will be just a formality.

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So :

  • Express your desire (this will keep you far away from the friend zone)
  • While not being needy (this will keep you from being seen like a desperate guy)

To seduce a woman in a solid way, you must combine those two keys.

If you forget one of them, you might end either as her best friend, or as a guy she’ll treat like a doormat.

Incorporate those two keys in your way of acting with women you like, and you’ll notice the difference.

Unlike all those fragile guys who try to trick girls into to make them interested or who act completely desperate, you’ll attract and seduce women in a solid way and authentic way.

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