How To Make Girls Want You: The EXACT Recipe (2 Steps + 5 Powerful Tips)

Make women want you is quite easy when you master some key principles.

how to make a girl want youAnd in this article, I’m going to share with you a powerful recipe to make girls want you.

And more specifically to make attractive girls attracted to you.

You can use this to turn on girls or to make your girlfriend or your wife obsessed with you.

So if you have a girl in sight (whether she’s a girl who doesn’t know you or a girl from your entourage)…

A girl you want to date but who doesn’t seem attracted to you…
Read carefully what follows…

You can even use it to get a girlfriend or to make a girl love you.

In order to make her want you, perhaps that you’ve tried to ignore her or to look high value by telling her about some interesting aspects of your life

This may have worked (especially if you implemented some specific actions that we’re going to see below). But this may also not have worked (it’s generally what happens).

Or maybe that you haven’t tried anything yet, for fear of screwing things up.

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Now, let’s bust some myths (or should I rather say clarify some “myths”).

It’s often said that in order to make girls want you, you must ignore them.


This is not meaningless.

But the problem with this advice is that it is incomplete.

It works wonder in certain situations, but not at all in some others.

how to make girl want you badlyMore specifically, it works wonder when it get the girls to ask herself this kind of questions:

  • Why does he ignore me?
  • Why did I do to that led him to ignore me like that?
  • Why isn’t he hitting on me like do every other guy?
  • And so on.

When a woman start asking herself these questions about you, you’ve won.

This is where she starts to become obsessed with you.

This is where she starts to make stories up in her head.
And in some cases this is where she start to become totally into you.

Now (that’s where it gets tricky), it’s not because you ignore a girl that she’s necessarily going to ask herself those questions.

It would be way too easy.

In order that a woman ask herself all those questions, she must have noticed you.

What’s the point in ignoring a girl who hasn’t even noticed you?

What’s the point in ignoring a girl who barely knows you by sight?

Making a girl want you is not as simple as ignoring her.
It’s not as simple as looking hard to get.

That brings us to a key principle to make women desire you:

Be a potential lover

Get the girl to see you as a potential lover.

Get the girl to notice you and to tell herself that a relationship or a sexual intercourse with you is something that might happen.

The first thing to do in order to achieve this is of course not being a total stranger in her eyes.
The girl must first know you.

But it’s still not enough.

You should have let an emotional print into her mind.

In other words, you should have made her feel positive emotions. Positive emotions she’s going to link to you.

How to do this concretely?

The key is to make her feel beautiful, feminine and unique into your eyes (more on that below).

Then, and only then, you can start ignoring her. You can start playing hard to get.

get her to like youAt this stage she’s going to start missing you.

At this stage she’s going to wonder what you think about her.

At this stage she’s going to make up stories about you in her head.

At this stage she’s going to become obsessed with you.

This is precisely at this stage that playing hard to get and ignoring her will arouse a strong desire in her.

Not before.

Because if you just ignore her without having made her feel beforehand that you can be a potential lover, she won’t be able to miss you.

To miss something – and to become obsessed with this thing – it’s necessary that this thing exists in our mind.

You understand now why just ignoring a girl without having made her lived emotions beforehand won’t get you anywhere.

What’s the point in playing hard to get with a girl for which you don’t exist?


To make a woman want you, the key is to be seen as a potential lover, while playing hard to get.

how to make a girl like you over textThe key is to be seen as accessible, all while being seen as hard to get.

You can achieve this by behaving successively in a way that gets the girl to see you as accessible and in a way that get the girl to see you as inaccessible.

By alternating between phases where the girl feels that something might happen between you and her and phases where the girl feels that she can’t get you, you’re going to arouse a strong desire in her.

In the same manner that someone who alternates phases where he smokes cigarettes and phases where he doesn’t smoke becomes addict to cigarettes.

Phases where you’ll play hard to get will create a sense of scarcity.
This will create a need.

And this need, you’re going to satisfy it by being accessible from time to time.

How to be seen as a potential lover (or as accessible):

Now let’s see 5 powerful ways to get a girl to imagine a potential relationship with you…

• Complimenting her on her physical beauty:

Easy to do and very effective.

A bold compliment is very powerful to get a girl to see you as a sexual man.

Compliments are very effective to declare your (sexual) interest to a girl.
Especially compliments on her physique.

For instance:

  • “You have beautiful legs.”
  • “You have very sexy lips.”
  • “You have a sensual neck.”
  • “I find you very sexy.”
  • Etc.

You can also pay her a compliment on her clothes or on her look.

For instance:

  • “I like your skirt, it looks very sexy on you.”
  • “I like your shirt, it looks quite sexy on you.”
  • Etc.

Those kinds of compliments are very effective to turn women on.

Now, you might be wondering:

“Wait but paying her such a compliment on her physical appearance isn’t going to make me look like a needy guy?”

Sure, if you say it like a needy guy trying to seek her approval, you’re indeed going to look like a desperate guy.

But if you say it in a self-confident tone and that you don’t act needy, you’re not going to be seen as a needy guy.

It’s as simple as that.

Does James Bond look needy when he makes a bold compliment to a woman?

Of course not.

Because he does it the right way.

how to get a girlfriendAnd when you do it the right way, the girl realizes that you are SOLID.

She realizes that you’re a dominant man who isn’t afraid to express his desires.

She realizes that you have some balls.

This is a big turn on for women.

And after that, when you start ignoring the girl, you’re going to leave her wanting more.

She’s going to miss your attention. Much more than if you’d behaved like a shy guy afraid of making her feel beautiful and feminine.

That’s the principle of the push-pull.

• Complimenting her on her personality:

After the girl says some interesting stuff about her, compliment her on her personality. In a way that suggests that you find her sexually attractive.

For instance:

  • “Good. I love women who are… forward.”
  • “I love women who stand up for themselves. I find it sexy.”
  • “I like sensitive women.”
  • “I like delicate women.”
  • Etc.

And after that, you play hard to get.
You start ignoring her or acting in such a way that she sees you as inaccessible.

• Touching her:

Physical contact is a powerful weapon to make a girl want you.
It’s a powerful weapon to get her to see you as a potential lover.

And there’s a reason for that:

When you touch a woman, she is going to get horny, to a greater or lesser extent. Just like she would during foreplay.

There are various ways to touch a girl in order to trigger the desired sensations:

You can touch her when complimenting her (it depends on the compliment: if you compliment her on her skin, you can touch her skin, and if you compliment her on her outfit, you can in a sustained way touch her outfit), you can touch her when inviting her to sit down (you take her by the hand or wrap your arm around her), etc.

• Giving her a sustained look:

Looking at the girl right into the eyes.

An extended gaze is very powerful to get a woman to see you as a potential lover.

You look right into her eyes, while remaining silent.

There’s a pause in the conversation?
Look at the girl, right into the eyes.

Don’t bother shifting between her eyes: choose one eye and stare at it. While relaxing all your facial muscles.

And wait until she looks away or break the silence.

how to make girls want you

Don’t look away.
And NEVER look down.

• Dwelling on a sexual part of her body:

This technique is very powerful.

It is about admitting in a shameless way that you’ve been distracted by a part of her body.
It can be her lips, her breast, her legs, etc.

Here’s how it goes:

The girl is talking to you.

Your look drifts to the sexual part in question, for instance her cleavage, and it dwells on it for about 1-2 seconds.

Right after that, you redeem yourself and you start looking at her again (in the eyes), and say something like:

“Sorry, I didn’t listen, I’ve been distracted by <part of her body>.”

In our example:

“Sorry, I didn’t listen, I’ve been distracted by your cleavage.”

In fact, you don’t even have to tell her that you’ve been distracted by her body part : you can just redeem yourself and look at her again, as if nothing had happened.

What is important is that she notices that you dwelled on her body part.

Because this is how she’s going to feel desired, beautiful and feminine into your eyes.

This is how she’s going to feel that you could be sexually attracted to her.

And after that, when you start ignoring her, she’ll be even more obsessed with you.

BONUS – How to make girls want you with pre-selection:

Pre-selection is about being seen with other girls.

When a woman sees you with other women, here’s what happens in her mind:

  • She’s certain that you’re a normal guy, and not a creepy (since you hang around with girls and that they seem to appreciate you)
  • She sees you as a man women want to be with

You are pre-selected.
Your value is increased into her eyes.

It’s even more effective when the women she sees you with are laughing with you and clearly having some good time with you. In short when they value your company.

Pre-selection is a powerful tool that you can use to be seen as inaccessible as well as being seen as a potentiel lover.

Think about it when you hang out with female friends.
They can help you make the other women want you.

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