How To Attract A Girl Who Doesn’t Like You [2+1 Easy Steps]
How to attract a woman who is not interested?
How to attract a girl who doesn’t like you?
Is that even possible?
The first step you need to take when it comes to attracting a girl who doesn’t like you is making sure she’s really not interested in you.
Why?
Because it’s not rare to confuse a woman who is not interested with a woman who actually is.
And vice versa.
Many women send mixed signals that lead men to feel completely lost.
A girl may not be interested in you at all despite an attitude of hers that have led you to think that she is. And conversely, a girl might be totally into you despite looking like she’s not interested.
Hence the importance to get to the bottom of this first.
Let’s dive right in.
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Preliminary step: Make sure she’s really not interested in you
The most obvious sign that a woman is not interested in you is…
Indifference.
It is not hate, contrary to what one might think (in fact, hate can hide very strong love feelings).
See also: 9 Signs That The Girl Is Not Interested In You
How do you determine whether a woman is indifferent or not?
Here’s how:
She (really) ignores you.
By “really”, I mean not on purpose.
It’s not part of a strategy to appear more desirable in your eyes or to play hard to get.
To her, you’re like a ghost.
As if you don’t exist.
She just doesn’t pay attention to you.
She doesn’t look at you.
She doesn’t talk to you.
She’s cold and distant.
It takes her a while to answer your texts.
And her answers are short.
She doesn’t take any interest in you.
And when she does, it’s because she needs a favor from you.
Most of the time, you’re like the invisible man.
See also: Signs She Doesn’t Want To Be In A Relationship (With You)
Important note:
Here I’m talking about real indifference.
Not simulated indifference.
This point is important because a woman in love could very well feign indifference, to make herself more desirable in your eyes or take revenge on you after you neglected her (I refer you to the article on the behavior of a woman in love in secret).
Related: 15 Signs She Secretly Likes You
To distinguish a real indifference from a fake indifference, pay attention to what this woman does in parallel:
Does she occasionally (willingly or not) send you signs of interest?
For instance, a prolonged look (especially if she’s doing it discreetly), spontaneous texts, a like or a friend request on social media…
If so, it is likely that her indifference is not real. And that she actually likes you.
Related: Early Signs A Girl Likes You
Now that you’ve made sure that this woman really doesn’t like you, you can consider taking the steps below.
Step 1: Make her doubt
Make her doubt her choice.
If you’ve come to believe that this woman doesn’t like you, it’s probably because she’s sent you some clear signs of disinterest.
She may have become distant after you made advances.
Maybe she even told you she didn’t like you.
That between you, nothing’s gonna happen.
At this point, it’s likely she sees you as a needy guy.
Even as a desperate guy, who is all over her.
Which is anything but attractive, and which will only reinforce her choice.
Related: What Makes A Man Attractive
If you want to conquer this woman, you’re gonna have to shake the vision she has of you.
To be able to replace it with a new vision, which will allow you to take things to the next level with her.
You must create a new image of yourself in her mind.
You must make sure she sees you as a potential sexual partner.
To do this, you must first make her doubt her feelings (or rather absence of feelings) for you.
You want her to tell herself that she was wrong about you.
You want her to tell herself that she made a mistake rejecting you, or not giving you a chance.
And this?
You’re going to do it by flipping the script.
By making her feel that YOU are the prize (and not her).
By getting her to see you as a challenge, as a trophy to be won.
The easiest way to do that?
It’s to…
Withdraw all your attention from her.
It’s your turn to act indifferent.
As if you were no longer interested in her.
Stop looking at her.
Stop texting her.
Stop thinking about her.
Related: What Does It Mean When A Girl Stops Texting You
Be aloof when she tries to interact with you (keep your responses brief, but don’t be mean or rude, since you don’t want to give the impression that you resent her, because in this case you wouldn’t look indifferent at all).
What’s going to happen in her head at that moment is that…
She’ll feel a lack of attention from you.
She’ll feel that you’re slipping away from her.
And it’ll drive her crazy.
To the point where she’ll want to win you back.
Especially if she knows you were interested in her before.
She won’t help herself but want to chase you.
All you have to do then is watch her struggle to get your attention back.
And to take action when the time is right (more on that below).
And to take it even further?
You can even use jealousy.
Make sure she sees you interact with other women (a friend of yours for instance, or some random girls at work or in class).
Even better: make sure she sees you flirting with these women.
You can go as far as kissing another girl in front of her.
Not only will it get her to see you as a man that women want (and therefore as a man of high value).
But it will also make her feel that she might be losing you to another woman.
She’ll sense that other women are competing for you, which will naturally make her want to chase you.
If the girl you want takes you for granted, turn things around by making her jealous.
Step 2: Escalate
Once you’ve shaken the image she had of you in her mind, it’s time to make a move.
It’s time to escalate.
It’s time to go for the kiss…and sleep with her.
To make a point.
As soon as you feel a renewed interest in her, take action.
Kiss her as soon as you get a chance (when you two are alone).
And move things forward like a man.
The key here is to avoid making the same mistakes that turned this woman off in the first place.
Maintain an attitude that is detached enough that she doesn’t take you for granted.
She should never stop seeing you as a challenge.
What if she doesn’t want a relationship with you?
There is a renewed interest on her side but she still doesn’t want a relationship with you?
You managed to sleep with her but she doesn’t want anything serious (or doesn’t even want to sleep with you again)?
This is something that can happen.
There may be several reasons for this.
I refer you to the article She Doesn’t Want A Relationship, in which we review them one by one and see the actions you can take to turn things around.
See also: How To Date Your Best Friend
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You’ve got to be ready to try certain things that are a bit bold (more or less depending on the girl and the situation).
It's all there:
Stay solid,
Jack
