How To Impress A Girl: 19 Things That Really Work

If you’re wondering how to impress a girl in an attracting way, you’re at the right place.

In this article, I’m going to share with you 19 things you can do to impress a woman.

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Here is the thing…

There is a mistake most of a guys do when they try to impress girls:

They actually allow the girl to sense that they are trying to impress her.

And as a result of this, the girl gets turned off.

Girls (and especially hot girls) are used to all kind of guys trying to impress them in order to get their affection or attract them.

Many girls have developped some kind of 6th sense that allow them to feel right away if a guy is trying to impress them or not.

And when the girl feels that the guy is trying too hard, this guy is going to struggle to attract this girl.

That’s why when you want to impress a girl, you should do it the right way.

You should do it in a way that really impresses her. In a way that doesn’t make you look like a needy or a low value guy.

And that’s precisely what this article is all about.

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Without further ado, let’s start by talking about the first thing you can do to impress a woman:

1. Let her discover your qualities by herself

Too many guys try to impress girls by bragging about themselves or by trying to prove themselves.

And by doing so, they trigger the opposite feelings they wanted to trigger in the first place.

By doing so, they get the girls to see them as insecure and low value guys.

This is pretty understandable: when a guy does this, he doesn’t look as a fully achieved man. He doesn’t look solid.

The alpha male doesn’t brag about himself. He doesn’t need to prove himself.

When you don’t brag about yourself, you’re actually impressive.

But that’s not all…

You’re really impressive when you let the girl discover your impressive qualities (or lifestyle), by herself. Without telling her about them (or at least without telling her right away).

When she finds this out by herself, she realizes that you’re different from all those beta males who would have rushed to tell her about it.

She realizes that you don’t give a shit about impressing her.

And that’s impressive.

She feels that there might be many other things to discover in you.

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So don’t tell the girl about your qualities or your badass activities right away.

Don’t try to tell her about it.

Let it come naturally into the conversation.

Never push it.

Never try to bring it in front of the girl.

She is going to figure it out at some point.

And there she will find you impressive.

2. Know what you want

Too many guys don’t know what they want.

They don’t know where they are heading.

Worse: some guys let women decide for them. Whether it is in a relationship, in an interaction, or in a date.

But here is the thing:

Women are not attracted to men like this.

Women are attracted to men who can lead.

They are attracted to men who can be in charge.

Not by whims who can’t do anything else but follow.

But there’s more…

Women don’t know what they want.

That’s why they need a direction.
They need a reference.

They need a powerful man to take command.
They need a powerful man who knows what he wants.

And when a woman stumbles upon this kind of man, she’s impressed.

So when interacting with a girl you’re attracted to, take command. Know where you’re heading. Make decisions.

Know what you want to accomplish in life. Have a vision and move toward it.

3. Fight for what you want

Knowing what you want is great, but if you don’t take action to accomplish what you want to accomplish, you’re no different from the other do-nothings.

If you don’t take action to move toward your goals, you’re just like the other followers who don’t do shit.

And you produce a limited impression on the girl. She’s not going to be really impressed.

On the other hand, if you constantly take action to achieve what you want to achieve, you become impressive.

You show that you’re solid.

So take action.

Act in order to get what you want, whether it is to bed a girl you like or to change your life.

Don’t stay idle.

4. Achieve great things

Things you achieve are part of yourself.

A guy who has achieve many things is a guy who has the capacity to know what he wants and to take action to get it.

It shows that you have the traits listed above.

So strive for greatness.

Have a great vision and set challenging goals to make this vision become real.

Be ambitious.

5. Be self-disciplined

Discipline resonates with solidity.

And on the other hand, lack of control resonates with fragility.

A man who shows self-discipline is impressive.

Last month, when having lunch with a pretty brunette and telling her about how I was planning my days (but without bragging about it, just to partly answer some questions she asked me), she was amazed.

Se was like “Oh wow”.

And the fact that I wasn’t bragging about it and that I wasn’t making a big deal about it got her even more impressed.

She sensed solidity.

She sensed that I was not one of this beta males who couldn’t take control over their own lives.

She sensed control. And that impressed her.

So think about it. Take control of your life and get some discipline.

6. Stand up for yourself

Do not agree on everything she says.

Don’t be this weak guy who who has no opinion on his own.

Don’t be this weak guy who can’t stand and defend his point of view.

When you agree on everything with a girl, you appear weak. You appear feminine. Like one of her female friend.

She can’t feel your solidity.

She can’t feel the man inside you.

She can’t feel the unshakable and unmovable male she’s looking for.

Unfortunately, too many guys think they should be agreeing on everything with girls.

As a result, they are boring.

That’s why when you act as a real man who displays solidity and incorruptibility, you impress girls.

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They might disagree with you, sure, and that’s exactly what you’re looking for.

When you disagree with a girl and stand up for yourself, she sees you differently than all those boring guys she’s used to.

She is impressed.

7. Don’t give up when she rejects you

Too many guys give up too early.

The girl shows resistance, throws some shit tests, disqualifies the guy, and he just can’t take it.

He gets smashed and falls appart. Like a pussy.

The strong masculine man doesn’t give up as easily. He has the balls and the ability to persist.

That makes him impressive.

When a hot girl who is used to beta males giving up at the first sign of difficulty comes across a strong masculine man who doesn’t waver at the slightest perturbation, she gets turned on. Because she senses solidity. She senses masculinity.

She realizes that this guy has some balls. She realizes that he has some courage that other guys have not.

This is a powerful way to impress her and to make her see you as a potential lover, and not as another boring guy.

8. Don’t react to her shit tests

Women will test you.

Again and again.

So get used to it.

how to impress a girl on facebookThey want to see if you’re up to the job.

They want to see if you’re a real man who can dominate them or if you’re just a pussy who is playing around.

Too many guys fall into the trap of reacting like girls to the shit tests women throw at them.

They too often react emotionally and get into an argument with the girl.

While the best way to react is simply ignoring them.

Don’t react at all.

Do you get into an argument when your 4 years old little niece try to mock you?


It would look ridiculous.

So don’t do it when a girl throws shit tests at you.

Stay solid.

She will find this impressive.

And you’ll pass her test.

9. Show emotional control

Leave emotional storms to girls.

Strong masculine men show emotional stability. They show emotional control.

They don’t let their emotions rule them. They are not slave to their emotions.

They don’t let themselves be driven crazy when arguing with someone.

They don’t get crazy when arguing with a girl. They don’t get crazy when a girl tries to push them over the edge.

They don’t allow their life to be shattered by decisions made in the heat of the moment.

And when a girl senses this emotional stability, she gets impressed.

She becomes attracted.

She sensed this powerful solidity her feminine part is seeking in men.

And since many guys lack this emotional control, a man who controls her emotions is impressive.

10. Be ambitious

Ambition tells a lot about a man.

A man who is ambitious is impressive.

In a world where there are so many guys with low standards and poor goals for their future, the guy who has high standards and who sets challenging goals impresses women.

The man who foresees a great future for himself (instead of foreseeing nothing but a boring and unexciting life) is impressive.

The more ambitious you are, the more impressive.

An ambitious man is a man who is going to lead a great life. He is a man who is going to achieve great things.

Women want to be with a man like that. Much more than with a man who sets himself for failure or who allows himself to live a boring life.

So be ambitious.

Have some plans that others wouldn’t even dare to dream of.

11. Surprise her with kindness after having displayed alpha traits and behaved in a dominant way

Some guys will tell you that you should never be nice with girls.

They will tell you that you should never be kind, because it would make you needy or weak.

There is some truth in this. But it’s largely incomplete.

This advice might help guys who struggle with girls: needy guys, insecure guys, and so on (at least at the beginning of their journey).

It can make them look more like a challenge.

But the alpha male, the strong masculine man, doesn’t need this.

The alpha male is already seen as a challenge.

He is already seen as a man to be with.

He is already seen as a potential lover or sexual partner.

He doesn’t need this advice.

He CAN be nice. He can be kind. He can be romantic. And when he acts that way he is in fact impressive.

Because girls don’t expect it.

They are not used to it on his part.

That’s why they value this kind behavior from him.

It contrasts with his usual alpha and dominant behavior.

So if your game is already solid, don’t hesitate from time to time to be kind. Girls will find this impressive.

12. Don’t talk about yourself

The more you talk about yourself, the more boring you become.

The more you talk about yourself, the more predictable you’re gonna be.

Beautiful girls are used to guys bragging about themselves to impress them.

They are used to guys talking about themselves in order to stand out or to prove to them that they’re worth their company.

And even if what they tell to the girl is “amazing” or “unique” or whatever, they’re going to annoy her pretty quickly.

They are going to look like they are trying to get the girl’s approval.

By trying to impress her by constantly talking about themselves, guys get the opposite: they are not impressive but flat and boring.

On the contrary, when you don’t talk about yourself but instead focus on the girl, you thrill her. You look interesting into her eyes.

She wonders why you don’t keep talking about yourself like the other guys or all those so called players or pick up artists.

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She finds this impressive.

She gets turned on by the mystery that surrounds you.

So don’t talk about yourself.

Only do it when you can bring value to the conversation (i.e. when it’s relevant). And keep it short.

13. Get her to see that others value your company

Women are attracted to high status men.

They are attracted to men who have a high position on the social ladder.

A high status men can be quite impressive.

To make her see you as a high status man, make her realize that others seek and value your company.

Make her realize that you lead a great social life and that people want to be with you.

But again, do it in a subtle way. Remember: don’t talk nor brag about yourself.

It’s better to show it, to let her see it by herself.

14. Lead

To impress a feminine girl, take the lead.

Unfortunately (or fortunately for you) too many guys are passive.

Too many guys wait for the girl to choose or to make decisions.

Too many guys just follow.

But that’s not the job of the man.

The man must lead. And the girl must follow.

By taking the lead, you allow the girl to feel your masculinity.

You allow her to feel your solidity.

You allow her to sense that you’re strong.

And a strong man is always impressive. A man who leads is impressive.

So take over. Take control. Be the one who initiates movement.

The girl will see you differently than all those weak followers she’s used to interact with.

15. Be honest by expressing your desires

Women are used to guys who are ashamed of their feelings.

They are used to guys who are afraid to express their desires.

They are used to guys who try to trick them.

And when a girl comes across a solid guy who have the balls to tell her that she finds her attractive, she gets impressed.

When a woman comes across a man who is honest, she is impressed.

how to impress a woman on first dateThose days, honesty and authenticity are impressive.

It makes you stand out.

Simple, yet so powerful.

So don’t try to hide your desires to a woman.

Tell her that you find her attractive, or make her understand it by complimenting her or by using your look.

Don’t worry, if you do it in a solid way (that is to say in an unapologetic way), you won’t look needy. You’ll look like a man who is honest and who doesn’t give a shit about what women might think of him.

16. Make her gifs

Guys are afraid to be a bit romantic these days.

Players and pick up artists think they can’t come off as romantic without losing the girl’s interest.

They are afraid of looking needy or cheesy.

But here is the thing:

You can afford to be romantic… if your game is solid.

If you’re a weak guy who acts needy and nervous, then being romantic will probably make things only worse.

But if you behave like a powerful alpha male, then being romantic will trigger positive and exciting emotions in the girls you’re dating.

This will contract with your alpha male attitude and will make them melt.

They will be much impressed.

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Have this in mind when dating feminine women. This works wonder.

Bring them chocolates, flowers, or other gifs, while always being the man.

Some gifts will be better suited than others depending on the culture of the girl or the country she comes from.

17. Stay calm and relaxed when she is yelling at you

If you’re in relationship with a girl, chances are that you already upset her or had an argument.

You probably noticed that sometimes she might be in a very bad mood and in the grip of a negative emotion spirale.

Nothing surprising here. Girls can get very emotional. They often struggle to control their emotions.

Understand that those mood swings at totally normal. It’s okay.

What is not okay, on the other hand, is that you respond to it like a girl.

Don’t fall into the trap of becoming emotional in your turn. Don’t start to yell and be aggressive.

Again, it’s not really her fault. Most of the time it’s just her hormones.

Just treat her like a child throwing a tantrum.

Stay calm.

Stay solid.

Be a rock.

This is your job as a man.

When a girl senses that you can stay grounded and peaceful during her emotional storms, she find this much impressing.

She finds this attractive. Because she can feel your masculinity. She can feel that you’re in control. She can feel that you’re a man.

18. Doing her a favor without expecting anything in return

Hot girls are used to beta males doing her some favors secretly hoping to impress them or to get their affection.

Unfortunately for these guys, girls have some kind of 6th sense that enables them to feel that something is wrong.

A girl can feel that in reality the guy is needy.

And as you might suspect, she doesn’t find this attractive. It turns her off.

On the other hand, when a man does her a favor without expecting anything in return (i.e. in a nonchalant way), she finds him quite impressive.

She’s so much used of all those beta males trying to please her that when she comes across an alpha male who just help her whilst not giving a shit at getting her affection, she finds this attractive.

This strong masculine man just does his job.

He takes action, gets shits down and does’t give a shit whether the girl likes him or not.

Do not do favor to a girl in order to please her.

Instead, do a favor because you’re a caring man who naturally helps vulnerable persons in his surrounding environment.

19. Ignore her

Girls (especially hot girls) are used to receive constant attention from all kinds of guys.

The hotter the girl, the more attention she receives and the more she is used to all kind of guys doing her some favors and trying to impress her.

By ignoring her, you stand out. She thinks of you differently.

inspire a girlShe wonders why you’re not giving her attention like all the other men.

She wonders why you’re not impressed by her beauty.

And as you might guess, she finds this quite impressive.

Ignoring a girl that is used to have all the men at her feet is a great way to impress her.

How to impress a girl – What you need to understand:

Again, to impress a girl, don’t ostensibly try to impress her.

That’s the key.

Keep this in mind when using the tips above.

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