How To Please A Woman In Bed (5 Keys To Get Her Addicted Sexually)

How to satisfy a woman in bed?

How to please a woman in bed?

How to give her an orgasm?

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That’s something many guys wonder about.

But don’t worry: after reading this article, the female orgasm will keep no more secrets from you (or let’s say it’ll have fewer secrets, since some women can be quite complex).


If you want to sweep your girlfriend or your fuckbuddy off her feet and onto her back

Or if you don’t have a regular sexual partner but you sleep with girls here and there and you want to make them scream with pleasure

Pay attention to what I’m going to share with you below.

You’re going to discover 5 crucial keys to make a girl come.

You’ll just have to incorporate the tips and advice that we’re going to see below, put them into practice, then see the results and adjust accordingly.

➡️ If you haven’t done so yet: take a look at this article in which I show you how you can master women in a way that will turn them on.

In other words, how to dominate women to make them wet with desire.

And NOT just in bed: you’re going to implement these small actions in other contexts and environments, be it after an approach, on a date, at a party, in your everyday life with your girlfriend or wife (or with your ex), and more… so that the woman you like sees you as a powerful dominant male who is able to satisfy her deepest desires and take her to seventh heaven.

...which is what is going to make her want to sleep with you…and even chase you.

Let’s dive in.

To easily satisfy a woman in bed, put her at ease:

If you want your partner to reach orgasm, it is essential that she feels relaxed.

It’s essential that there is no stress.

By putting her at ease, you increase the chances that she’ll achieve orgasm.

But what do I mean exactly by putting her at ease?

To put her at ease, first make sure that she feels desired:

Some girls are self-conscious about some parts of their body (sure, those body-image issues are sometimes unfounded, but that’s how girls think…)

To put her at ease, compliment her.

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Tell her how much you find her beautiful or pay her some specific compliments about her body parts.

Related: How To Get A Woman To Sleep With You

Create the right environment: arrange the place

  • Dim lights: soft light (not totally dark, though, because the sight of your body during sex can arouse her even more).
  • Cleanliness: it might seem obvious, but men tend to neglect hygiene and cleanliness in the place they live. Girls care more about hygiene and cleanliness. They are more sensitive to it. This is why by making sure that the place where you plan to have sex is clean, you allow her to feel more relaxed.
  • Quietness: no external disturbances such as the phone ringing, notifications, and so on. Shut down your phone and other devices that could disturb sexual intercourse.

Sure, there’ll still be times when you’ll have no control over some of those parameters; for instance, if you make love at a party (i.e. not at your place) or in a public place.

The points listed above are not absolutely necessary to please a woman sexually, but they can help.

Now, let’s talk about the next key to satisfying a woman in bed…

To please a woman in bed, think about her pleasure:

Many men forget about this: they think primarily about their pleasure, they think primarily about themselves.

Many guys think only about themselves and completely forget the pleasure of their partner.

how to sexually satisfy your woman in bedOr they think that they are giving pleasure to their partner when they’re not even close.

What you need to understand is that the body of a woman and the body of a man are built differently.

They don’t work the same way.

Women don’t feel pleasure the same way that men do.

They aren’t aroused the same way as men are.

Women have many more erogenous zones than men.

Their bodies are much more sensitive to touching.

They can reach one or several repeated orgasms.

And they can achieve orgasm thanks to various forms of stimulation, while men have fewer erogenous zones and can basically have only one orgasm per sex session.

What’s more, men are generally all the same when it comes to having an orgasm.

Women can be very different: some women achieve orgasm simply through touching a specific area of their body, other women reach orgasm by touching another area of their body

how to please your wife with direct stimulationEach woman is different (that being said, women possess a common base on which you can work and use in order know where you’re heading).

There’s a thing you need to understand:

If the mere view of a female body is enough to turn on a man, the opposite is not true.

In most cases, viewing a male body is not enough to make a woman horny.

What arouses women is touching, caressing, hugging

Read: How To Arouse A Woman

Hence the importance of thinking how to please her.

It starts by being aware of the differences between men and women when it comes to orgasm, by being aware that it’s necessary to explore the erogenous zones of your partner in order to find out what makes her wet.

And in order to figure out where you’re heading, you must be attentive to her reactions.

You must sense which touches arouses herwhich touches bring her discomfort

By being attentive to her breathing, to her moaning, to her movements…

In order to understand how her body works and what makes her wet.

Let’s go into further details by moving to the next key:

To make her come, focus on foreplay:

Foreplay is a crucial step to make her wet.

Too often, tend to rush it.

After all, in order to fuck we just need to have an erection, don’t we?

Sure, but for women it’s different.

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Women require much more time to get horny.

By making sure to make her moist and wanting you before penetrating her, you dramatically increase her chances of reaching orgasm during sex.

You can even give her an orgasm during foreplay, before penetrating her.

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Understand this:

Foreplay is never too long.

As long as your partner doesn’t ask you to penetrate her, you can continue foreplay.

Good foreplay is foreplay that is carried out gradually.

Start by taking her clothes off one by one while kissing and caressing her.

You can compliments her body parts at the same time.

At the beginning, touch and kiss her body while avoiding her tits and genitals.

What makes a girl horny is raising the temperature gradually.

Step by step.

talking dirty with sex educatorFigure out what her most erogenous parts are and concentrate on them. It can be various places such as:

  • the earlobes
  • the knee pit
  • the inner thigh
  • the feet
  • the shoulders
  • the neck

You can touch areas such as her booty, but don’t touch her genitals yet.

And don’t forget to kiss her repeatedly.

We often forget how much a woman can be aroused by a deep and sensual kiss.

After a few minutes, you can move to the next step and start slightly kissing her tits.

Don’t go after her nipples right away.

Take it a step at a time, as always.

Start by kissing the lower part of the side of her breast.

Then head toward the nipple.

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Some women love when you sensually kiss their breasts, others prefer when you only kiss and suck their nipples, other prefer when you lick them…

It depends on the girl.

Related: How To Kiss Your Girlfriend Romantically

It’s up to you to identify your partner’s preferences.

At this stage, you haven’t touched her vagina or clitoris yet.

It’s coming, don’t worry.

Once the girl is getting hornier, you can finally head toward her crotch…and more precisely toward her clitoris.

vaginal regular sexSince the clitoris is sensitive and can easily get sore, you’re going to lubricate this area with vaginal fluid or with your saliva.

First of all, start by touching the surface of the clitoris slightly .

Again, take it slow.

Proceed gradually.

Men often have difficulty in finding the right intensity.

Instead of slightly caressing the clitoris, they start with way too much intensity right away. They’re too abrupt.

Some areas of girls’ genitals get sore easily and react badly to intense and sustained touches, whereas some other parts react quite well to these kinds of touches.

If you want to touch sensitive areas of her skin or mucosal body parts, it’s better to slightly caress or palpate them with your fingers or tongue.

It’s better to reserve more intense touches to body parts that are less sensitive (booty, legs, stomach, lower part of the tits, and so on).


After you start touching her clitoris slightly, incrementally increase the pressure on it.

Pay attention to her reactions: try to identify what kind of touches (speed, pressure, area) she prefers.

Do not hesitate to touch other parts of her body and to kiss her breasts while working on her clitoris. You can make her reach orgasm this way.

For some women, clitoral stimulation is enough to make them come, whereas for some others, it will be more effective to introduce one of several fingers into her vagina while continuing to caress her clitoris…or to penetrate her…which gets us to the next key…

The key to making her reach orgasm during penetration:

As always, take it a step at a time.

Proceed gradually.

Don’t start right away by jackhammering her.

You run the risk of hurting her and ruining all the hard work you’ve done during foreplay.

What’s more, violently penetrating a girl is not enough to make her come. It doesn’t work like that.

So don’t rush things.

how to make my woman happy in bed by stimulating her g spot

To make a girl come during penetration, the best way is to stimulate her clitoris while penetrating her.

There are various ways to do it, such rubbing your pubis against hers or using your finger. Some women like to do it themselves.

That’s the way you’ll make her come.

How to fuck her in a solid way:

Many guys get it wrong when it comes to make love with a girl.

Many guys treat girls like angels…as if they were some kind of innocent children.

And after that, they wonder why they struggle to please women in bed.

They wonder why they can’t make them really horny and sweep them off their feet.

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Understand this:

To satisfy a woman in bed, don’t make love with her, but fuck her.

You must be strong and act like a man.

If you play it soft during the whole sexual intercourse, chances are that you’ll leave her dissatisfied.

Being sweet and lovely is nice, but it’s not what makes a woman really horny. It’s not enough to make her scream with pleasure.

Women want sex. They want hard and wild sex. No matter what some people might claim.

how to make a girl come with best vibratorsSo don’t hesitate to fuck her hard.

Don’t hesitate to treat her like a bitch.

Don’t hesitate to talk dirty, to spank her, to pull her hair, to firmly grab her body parts, and so on.

Try this and see how it makes her wet.

It may seem kind of harsh, but that’s how it works.

Of course you shouldn’t do it in a way that is going to hurt her, but simply be firm enough so that she can feel that you dominate her.

That’s the way you make her feel your solidity in bed.

That’s the way she can feel your masculinity and be completely into you.

When you satisfy a girl in bed, she’s going to want to see you again.

She’s going to want to be fucked by you again and again.

Related: How To Make Her Want You More

On the contrary, she won’t be interested in a guy who treats her like a little angel and who is afraid to act like a man and dominate her.

So don’t hesitate to kind of mistreat girls in bed.

You’ll notice how it makes them wet.

And in the end, it can make a girl addicted to you.

women enjoy multiple orgasms entire bodyYou’ll also notice that some girls love being spanked, others not so much, that some girls love to have their hair pulled, some others not so much, but at some point, every girl loves to be more or less mistreated during sex.

It makes them really horny.

It makes them reveal the bad girl who’s inside.

Now that you know exactly how to satisfy a woman in bed, keep in mind that each woman is unique.

And that some situations are also unique.

Some women will want to be penetrated quickly without dwelling on foreplay sometimes, whereas other women (or the same women but in different situations) will need more time before fucking.

Some women reach orgasm more easily than others.

For some, you’ll have to put more time into it.

It’s your job to adapt to your partner and to meet her sexual needs the best you can.

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If you enjoyed this article (and even if you didn’t), you’ll love this other extensive post I recently published:

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There’s something you need to understand:

Women want to be submissive.

They fantasize about sexual submission.

And when they meet a dominant man who has the potential to satisfy their submission fantasies, it makes them desire him intensely.

Sounds shocking or surprising to you?

Keep reading…

Today, you’re going to learn how to master women in a way that will turn them on.

You’re going to learn how to dominate women to make them wet with desire.

And NOT just in bed:

You’re going to implement this in other contexts and environments, be it after an approach, on a date, at a party, and more.

You’re going to implement this in your everyday life with the women you like so that they see you as a powerful dominant male who is able to satisfy their desires and take them to seventh heaven.

These actions you’re going to implement daily with the girls you want will lead them to see you as THE man to date.

You’ll stand out.

Women will see you as a potential lover and as a good lay (and that’s a bit of an understatement).

However, there are things you need to understand first.

You’ve got to be ready to try certain things that are a bit bold (more or less depending on the girl and the situation).

It's all there:

>> Be DOMINANT with Women: Know How to MASTER Them (In Everyday Life) to Make Them Fantasize About You

Stay solid,

About the Author

Expert in male-female relationships and passionate about evolutionary psychology, Jack Vitel has been helping for over 10 years men of all ages regain control of their sexual and love lives. He is known for his unique concept of solidity, which allows men to naturally attract the women they want by tapping into their inner masculine potential.