How To Satisfy A Woman In Bed: 5 Keys For Better Sex (And To Make Her Come)

How to satisfy a woman in bed?

How to please a woman in bed?

How to give her an orgasm?

That’s something many guys wonder.

But don’t worry, after reading this article, female orgasm will have no more secrets for you (or let’s say much less, since some women can be quite complex).

tips to please a womanSo…

If you have want to sweep your girlfriend or your fuck buddy off her feet and onto her back

Or if you don’t have any regular sexual partner yet but that you sleep with girls here and there and that you want to make them scream with pleasure

Pay attention to what I’m going to share with you below.

You’re going to discover 5 crucial keys to make a girl come.

You’ll just have to assimilate the tips and advice that we’re going to see below, put them into practice, then see the results and adjust accordingly.

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• To easily satisfy a woman in bed, put her at ease:

So that your partner can reach orgasm, it is essential that she feels relaxed.

It’s essential that there is no stress.

By putting her at ease, you increase the chances that she’ll achieve orgasm.

But what do I mean exactly by putting her at ease?

To put her at ease, first make sure that she feels desired:

Some girls are self-conscious about some parts of their body (sure those body-image issues are sometimes unfounded, but that’s how girls think…).

To put her at ease, compliment her.

Tell her how much you find her beautiful or pay her some specific compliments about her body parts.

Create the right environment: arrange the place

  • Dim lights: soft light (not totally dark though, the sight of your body during sex can arouse her even more).
  • Cleanliness: it might seem obvious but men tend to neglect hygiene and cleanliness in the place they live. Girls care more about hygiene and cleanliness. They are more sensitive to it. This is why by making sure that the place where you plan to have sex is clean, you allow her to feel more relaxed.
  • Quietness: no externals disturbances such as the phone ringing, notifications, and so on. Shut down your phone and other devices that could disturb the sexual intercourse.

Sure, there’ll still be times when you’ll have no control over some of those parameters, for instance if you make love at a party (i.e. not at your place) or in a public place.

The points listed above are not absolutely necessary to please a woman sexually, but they can help.

Now let’s talk about the next key to satisfy a woman in bed…

• To please a woman in bed, think about her pleasure:

Many men forget about that: they think primarily about their pleasure, they think primarily about them.

Many guys think only about them and completely forget the pleasure of their partner.

how to sexually satisfy your woman in bedOr they think that they are giving pleasure to their partner whereas they’re not even close.

What you need to understand is that the body of a woman and the body of a man are built different.
They don’t work the same way.

Women don’t take pleasure the same way as men do.
They aren’t aroused the same way as men are.

Women have much more erogenous zones than men.
Their bodies are much more sensitive to touches.

They can reach one or several repeated orgasms.

And they can achieve orgasm thanks to various forms of stimulations. While men have less erogenous zones and can basically have only one orgasm per sexual intercourse.

What’s more, men are globally all the same when it comes to having an orgasm.

Women can be very different: some women achieve orgasm simply through touches to a specific area of their body, other women reach orgasm by touches to another area of their body

enjoy sexEach woman is different (that being said women possess a common base on which you can work and use in order know where you’re heading).

There’s a thing you need to understand:

If the mere view of a female body is enough to turn on a man, the opposite is not true.

In most cases, viewing a male body is not enough to make a woman horny.

What arouse women are touches, caresses, hugging

Hence the importance of thinking how to please her.

It starts by being aware of the differences between men and women when it comes to orgasm. By being aware that it’s necessary to explore erogenous zones of your partner in order to find out what makes her wet.

And in order to figure out where you’re heading, you must be attentive to her reactions.

You must sense which touches arouses herwhich touch brings her discomfort

By being attentive to her breath, to her moans, to her movements…

In order to understand how her body works and what makes her wet.

Let’s go into further details by moving to the next key:

• To make her come, focus on foreplay:

Foreplay is a crucial step to make her wet.
Men too often tend to rush it.

After all, in order to fuck we just need to have an erection, don’t we?

Sure, but for women it’s different.

foreplay and sex tipsWomen require much more time to get horny.

By making sure to make her moist and wanting before penetrating her, you dramatically increase her chances to reach orgasm during sex.

You can even give her an orgasm during foreplay, before penetrating her.

Understand this:

Foreplay is never to long.

As long as your partner don’t ask you to penetrate her, you can continue foreplay.

Good foreplay is foreplay that is carried out gradually.

Start by taking off her clothes one by on, whilst kissing and caressing her.
You can at the same time make her some compliments on her body parts.

At the beginning, touch and kiss her body, while avoiding her tits and her genitals.

What works to make a girl horny is to raise the temperature gradually.
Step by step.

Figure out what are her most erogenous parts and concentrate on them. It can be various places such as:

  • the earlobes
  • the knee pit
  • the inner thigh
  • the feet
  • the shoulders
  • the neck
  • etc.

You can areas such as her booty but don’t touch her genitals yet.

And don’t forget to kiss her repeatedly.
We often forget how much a woman can be aroused by a deep and sensual kiss.

After a few minutes, you can move to the next step and start slightly kissing her tits.

sexy moves to try in bedDon’t go after her nipples right away.
Take it a step at a time, as always.

Start by kissing the lower part of the side of her breast.

Then head toward the nipple.

Some women love when you sensually kiss their breast, others prefer when you only kiss and suck their nipples, other prefer when you lick them…

It depends on the girl.

It’s up to you to identify you’re partner’s preferences.

A this stage, you haven’t touched her vagina or her clitoris yet.
It’s coming, don’t worry.

Once the girl is getting hornier, you can finally head toward her crotch… and more precisely toward her clitoris.

vaginalSince the clitoris is sensitive and can easily get sore, you’re going to lubricate this area with vaginal fluid or with your saliva.

First of all, stat by touching slightly the surface of the clitoris.

Again, take it slow.

Proceed gradually.

Men often have difficulties to find the right intensity.

Instead of slightly caressing the clitoris, they start with way too much intensity right away. They’re too abrupt.

Some areas of girls’ genitals get sore easily and react badly to intense and sustained touches, whereas some other parts react quite well to this kind of touches.

If you want to touch sensitive areas of her skin or mucosal body parts, it’s better to slightly caress or palpate them with your fingers or your tongue.

It’s better to reserve more intense touches to body parts that are less sensible (booty, legs, stomach, lower part of the tits, etc.).


After starting touching slightly her clitoris, incrementally increase the pressure on it.

Pay attention to her reactions: try to identify what kind of touches (speed, pressure, area) she prefers.

Do not hesitate to touch other parts of her body and to kiss her breast while working on her clitoris.
You can make her reach orgasm this way.

For some women, a clitoris stimulation is enough to make them come, whereas for some others it will be more effective to introduce one of several fingers into her vagina while continuing to caress her clitoris… Or to penetrate her… Which gets us to the next key…:

• The key to make her reach orgasm during penetration:

what women really need in bedAs always, take it a step at a time.

Proceed gradually.

Don’t start right away by jackhammering her.

You would run the risk to hurt her and ruin all the hard work you’ve done during foreplay.

What’s more, violently penetrating a girl is not enough to make her come. It doesn’t work like that.

So don’t rush things.

To make a girl come during penetration, the best way remains to stimulate her clitoris while penetrating her.

There are various ways to do it: rubbing your pubis against hers, or using your finger. Some women like to do it themselves.

That’s the way you’ll make her come.

• How to fuck her in a solid way:

Many guys get it wrong when it comes to make love with a girl.

Many guys treat girls like angels… As if they were some kind of innocent children.

And after that, they wonder why they struggle to please women in bed.
They wonder why they can’t make them really horny and sweep them off their feet.

Understand this:

To satisfy a woman in bed, don’t make love with her, but fuck her.
You must be strong and act as a man.

If you play it soft during the whole sexual intercourse, chances are that you’ll leave her disatisfied.

Being sweet and lovely is nice, but it’s not what makes a woman really horny. It’s not enough to make her scream with pleasure.

Women want sex. They want hard and wild sex. No matter what some people might claim.

how to make a girl comeSo don’t hesitate to fuck her hard.

Don’t hesitate to treat her like a bitch.

Don’t hesitate to talk dirty, to spank her, to pull her hair, to firmly grab her body parts, and so on.

Try this and see how it makes her wet.

It may seem kind of harsh, but that’s how it works.

Of course you shouldn’t do it in a way that is going to hurt her, but simply be firm enough so that she can feel that you dominate her.

That’s the way you make her feel your solidity in bed.
That’s the way she can feel your masculinity and be completely into you.

When you satisfy a girl in bed, she’s going to want to see you again.
She’s going to want to be fucked by you again and again.

On the contrary, she won’t be interested in this guy who treats her like a little angel and who is afraid to act as a man and dominate her.

So don’t hezitate to kind of mistreat girls in bed.

You’ll notice how it makes them wet.

You’ll also notice that some girls love being spanked, other a bit less, that some girls love to have their hair pulled, some other a bit less, but at some point every girl love to be more or less mistreated during sex.

It makes them really horny.

It makes them reveal the bad girl who’s inside.

Now that you know exactly how to satisfy a woman in bed, keep in mind that each woman is unique.

And that some situations are also unique.

Some women will at some times want to be penetrated quickly without dwelling on foreplay. Whereas other women (or same women but in different situations) will need more time before fucking.

Some women reach orgasm more easily than others.
For some, you’ll have to put more time into it.

It’s you’re job to adapt to your partner and to meet her sexual needs the best you can.

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