How to Compliment a Woman (and Turn Her On): 9 Powerful Compliments (+ 1 Trap to Avoid)

If you want to know how to compliment a woman in a way that will make her horny, you’re at the right place.

In this article, we’re going to see a list of compliments you can make to a girl to build sexual tension.

compliments women can't resistMaking a compliment to a woman is a charming and effective way to make her feel that you find her sexually attractive.

But as you can imagine, it is crucial you make your compliment the right way.

That is to say in a way that is not weird nor needy.

And to this end, there is something you must understand:

You might very well have the best compliment in the world (assuming that such a compliment actually exists), but if you do it the wrong way, this compliment will have an effect opposite to your intention.

That’s why before diving into the list of compliments you can give to a woman to turn her on, I must address a (big) trap to avoid…

How To Compliment A Woman: Are You Doing This Fatal Mistake?

When they compliment a woman, most men do it in a supplicating way (a lot of them aren’t even aware of it).

It looks like they’re making their compliment just to make the girl like them, or to be accepted by her.

A bit like the star pupil who wants to be well regarded by the teachers and who pushes himself very hard to participate in class.

Except that here, the context is different.

The goal here is not the get a good grade.

The girl you’re interacting with is not your teacher, and you’re not her pupil.

And if you give her that impression, you’ll just look extremely needy.

You’ll look supplicant.

You’ll look like a guy who is in need of affection and who is ready to do anything in order to gain acceptance.

And at that point, she’ll just be disgusted.

There’ll be a weird feeling.

Making A Compliment In A Way That Turns Her On:

When you give a compliment to a woman, you must NOT deliver it in a way that makes you look like you’re waiting for an answer from her.

Because it will make you look needy.

It will make you look like you’re awaiting for her validation.

As if you were waiting for her to say “Thank you” or “Oh it’s so nice”.

You would look like a guy who wants to be liked at all cost, or like a guy who wants to flatter her by all means.

And as you can guess, it is a pretty weak way to make a compliment.

Not worthy of a strong masculine man like you.

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When making a compliment to a girl, don’t expect anything from her.

Don’t do it in a supplicating way.

Do not wait for an answer from her.

More specifically, don’t go up in pitch at the end of the compliment.
Your voice shouldn’t go high at the end of your sentence.

In other words, you must not sound like you’re asking a question.

Instead of that, deliver your compliment in an assertive tone.

You say what you think.
You speak your mind.
That’s all.

And you shouldn’t give a sh** about what the girl is going to think about it.

Don’t make your compliment with the goofy smile of the guy who wants to make a good impression at all costs.

Deliver it in a more profound and solid way.

And don’t dwell on it.

Continue the conversation like it’s nothing.

• The safest and simplest way to do it is to deliver your compliment as if you were making it to a friend (great if you don’t really feel like making a compliment to a woman)…

As if you were making it to a relative you weren’t looking to turn on.

Like it’s just an observation.

You say it with sincerity, without waiting for an answer.

You speak your mind, period.

If you tell her that you like her sweater and she tells you that she doesn’t like it (very unlikely though), you don’t change your opinion about it.

You said you liked it, period.

Whether or not she agrees with you isn’t important.

And as you can guess, this way of doing is a very manly and powerful way to give a compliment.

Women find this extremely attractive, even if they don’t admit it.

And not just women by the way…

No matter the person to whom you’re making a compliment, you shouldn’t do it in order to please them, but just in order to share your thoughts and express yourself.

• You can also make a compliment in a more sexual way, by leaving a pause after delivering it, while looking at the girl deeply into the eyes…

When you compliment a girl in this way, the key is to deliver your compliment with a deep and smooth voice.

The girl should feel that you’re in control.

She should feel that the vibe between you is sexually charged.

She should feel the sexual tension between you.

The perfect moment to compliment a girl this way is during your date when sitting next to each other (or face to face). For instance just before going for the kiss.

complimenting a person you're romantically interested in

Well…

Now that we’re clear on the right way to deliver a compliment to a woman, let’s dive into the compliments per se…

9 of The Best Compliments to Give to a Woman to Turn Her On:

To make sure your understand what makes those compliments so effective, you must first and foremost understand what is the purpose of a compliment.

The role of your compliment should be first and foremost to turn on the woman you’re interacting with.

The role of a compliment is to create sexual tension.

The purpose of a compliment is to make her understand that something is going on between you and her.

It’s to make her imagine a romance or a relationship with you.

In other words to make her see you as more than just a friend.

And to this end, your compliments shouldn’t be compliments that you can do to anybody.

They shouldn’t be compliments that you can do to your grandma or to your best buddy.

The compliments you make to a woman that you want to make horny must be arousing and sexually stimulating.

They must be sexually suggestive.

They must make the girl feel in a more or less obvious way that you find her sexually attractive.

And to compliment a girl in such a way, there is no such things as the compliments we’re going to see below.

Let’s start right now by the first compliment of the list:

1. “You have beautiful legs.” – then you can add “Do you workout?” (making your compliment followed with this question allows you to make such a bold compliments more easily, if you don’t feel like doing such a compliment).

This compliment may appear bold to you, and that’s precisely what makes him so powerful.

You express your sexual interest in a straightforward – yet socially calibrated – way.

And since you do it in a dominant way – as well as with a low investment level – it is usually very well received.

The girl feels that she is sexually desired, and it makes her horny.

best compliments for a girl over textSome “coaches” or “experts” will tell you to never compliment a woman on her physical appearance.

They are getting it wrong.

They are afraid of doing this kind of compliment only because they haven’t understand how to compliment a woman with the right energy, in a solid way, and without sounding like a weird or needy guy.

As a result, they resort to generic and wishy-washy compliments that have little to no effect.

When you know how to deliver your compliment with the right energy, you can afford to make the kind of compliments listed here.

Because the success of your compliment lies in how you say it.

It also lies in how you interact with the girl the rest of the time.

If you are a normal, clean-cut, well-behaved guy, then making a bold compliment to a woman won’t push her away. Quite the contrary.

2. “You have sensual lips.” / “I like your lips.”

Lips are a sensual and erogenous zone, which makes it a great body part to compliment a woman on.

Complimenting a woman on this part of her face is an effective way to build sexual tension.

3. “You have a sensual neck.”

Neck is a very erogenous zone where women love to be kissed.

Complimenting a woman on this body part is an effective way to make her think about sex, and thus to turn her on.

4. “You’ve got lovely skin.” – then you can add “It makes me want to caress it.”

A less bold and a priori less arousing compliment than the previous ones, but which allows you to build some sexual tension, especially when making it followed with “It makes me want to caress it.“.

5. “I like your shirt, I find it very sexy.”

Complimenting a girl on her clothes while mentioning that it makes her sexy (and thus desirable and sexually attractive) is an effective way to make her feel desired.

And so it’s an effective way to create sexual tension.

6. “I like your dress, you look pretty hot in it.”

Idem.

7. “I like your jeans, you look pretty hot in them.”

Idem.

8. “I like the way you walk. Very feminine. It’s kind of hot.”

Here, you’re making a compliment on her attitude. And more precisely on her way of walking, by mentioning that she is a feminine girl.

This way, you polarize.

You reinforce her femininity.

This is a great way to build sexual tension.

9. “You have beautiful buttocks.” – then you can add “Do you workout?” (it allows you to make such a compliments more easily and naturally).

Bold, but tremendously effective.

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Again, as long as the girl sees you as a normal guy, you can afford to make such compliments.

If you know each other (in other words if you’re not a complete stranger) and that she accepted to meet you (again) on a date in order to have a drink or a coffee with you, you can afford to make such compliments.

It’s only in the case the girl does not know you that you could be seen as a pervert or a creepy.

So…

Let’s briefly sum up the compliments we just saw:

  1. “You have beautiful legs.” – then you can add “Do you workout?” (making your compliment followed with this question allows you to make such a bold compliments more easily, if you don’t feel like doing such a compliment)
  2. “You have sensual lips.” / “I like your lips.”
  3. “You have a sensual neck.”
  4. “You’ve got lovely skin.” – then you can add “It makes me want to caress it.”
  5. “I like your shirt, I find it very sexy.”
  6. “I like your dress, you look pretty hot in it.”
  7. “I like your jeans, you look pretty hot in them.”
  8. “I like the way you walk. Very feminine. It’s kind of hot.”

Now, as you can guess, this list is not exhaustive.

The compliments you can make to a woman are countless.

What I recommend you to do is to use the compliments above as a source of inspiration, in order to create your own compliments.

It will allow you to make unique and tailored compliments, based on the girl you’ll be interacting with.

Remember that the most important is to deliver your compliment in a solid and dominant way.

That is to say by speaking relatively slowly, in an assertive tone (without going high in pitch at the end of your sentence), and by looking at the girl deep into the eyes (at least during a part of the compliment, as the other part might be told while looking at the body part you’re complimenting).

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