How to Turn Her Into Your Girlfriend in Just 9 Simple Steps…

Today, I’m going to show you my approach to turn a girl you’ve just met into your girlfriend, in just 9 simple steps.

The best part?

It won’t take you more than one single date to do this.

What you’re about to discover is based on scientific studies about women and psychology, as well as my experience in the field.

This formula has already helped thousands of guys date girls they thought were completely out of their leagues.

And they didn’t just bang these girls.

They managed to turn them into loving and devoted girlfriends.

Sound like a stretch?

I know exactly how that feels.

But let me tell you this:

What you’re about to discover is the most effective approach in dating in existence.

And it works no matter your physique, social background, or level of experience with women.

It’s allowed me and thousands of Road to Solidity subscribers date all kinds of beautiful women, all over the world.

What you’re about to learn might surprise you (and even shock you), but it’s for your own good.

Like a lot of guys, you probably think you need good looks, big muscles, a nice car, or an amazing job to get a girlfriend.

However, it’s not those things that will really make a girl attracted to you.

When you know what to do to make a girl want to have sex with you (and more), you don’t need any of that.

With the right approach, you can even turn a girl you want into a devoted girlfriend…in just one single day.

And that’s what I’m going to show you today.

However, there are certain things you need to understand if you want it to work.

There are certain actions you must do, some psychological triggers you need to pull, and some traps you should avoid.

You also need to use the right ingredients with the right dosage.

The first thing you must understand is…

The earlier you close the deal, the better.

When you act early on, you can be sure that this girl you want will see you as a potential boyfriend (and not as just a friend).

On the other hand, the more you wait, the more likely you’ll end up in her friendzone, a tough place to escape from.

That’s why you must not wait too long before making a move.

In fact, if you’ve done nothing on the first date, your chances of closing the deal are drastically reduced.

However, making a move on the first date is not always easy.

With some girls, if you don’t know what you’re doing, it can be tough.

This might be because you don’t feel like she’s ready for it, or because she’s intimidating, or because you sense a lack of connection between you, or whatever…

Sometimes, it can be hard to make a move on the first date.

And when the second date (if you manage to get one) comes, it may be even harder.

And in the end, what happens is that you do nothing…and lose the girl.

When you wait too much, you miss this opportunity.

That’s why it is crucial that you escalate quickly.

But here’s the catch: you don’t want to act too pushy, either.

Because if you act too pushy, you’re likely to come off as a needy guy or as a weirdo.

And that’s a real turn-off.

It’ll make the girl run away.

That’s why it’s important that you do it right, in a way that makes the girl horny, while at the same time making sure that she doesn’t perceive you as needy or too pushy.

How you’ll do it will also depend on the girl you’re dating. Some girls will require a bit more finesse and romantic stuff, while others will just want you to escalate quickly (more on that below).

Before I show you the exact steps to have sex with a girl and turn her into a girlfriend in just one single date, I must tell you a story about myself that will help you better understand what I’m going to teach you below…

Before I became successful with women, I struggled a lot.

I had no clue how girls worked and what to do to pick them up.

I found it very hard to interact with girls I liked.

I was constantly nervous and my interactions felt awkward.

Sometimes, I managed to man up and ask a girl out, but since I had had no proper interaction with her before that, she would just politely turn down my proposition.

Then, one night at a friend’s party, I met a pretty girl named Julia with whom I had a quick chat.

Since I had found her very attractive, I asked my friend to give me her number.

We chatted a bit through texts.

I asked her out.

She accepted.

At that moment, I was so excited. I even felt in love. And I became obsessed with her.

As planned, we met on a date and I took her to the theater to watch a romantic comedy.

My plan was to kiss her during the movie.

All my attention was focused on this.

So during the whole movie, I was nervous, waiting for the perfect opportunity to make a move.

Near the end of the movie, feeling that if I did nothing I could miss the opportunity, I manned up, took her hand, she turned her head towards mine, and we kissed.

“Victory!” …or so I thought.

We went out of the theater and headed to the bus station, hand in hand.

Although I was still very nervous, I felt so happy.

Finally! I had a girlfriend!

Then, once at the bus station, when it came time to kiss goodbye, I fell back to Earth.

When I tried to kiss her goodbye, she turned her head, said “Sorry,” and just left.

What the fuck?

What the hell happened?

The night after that, I called her on her phone.

At first, she didn’t answer.

As I tried again, she sent me a brief text explaining that she just didn’t feel connected to me, everything had gone so fast, and she realized she didn’t know me.

And she was right. Since I was absolutely not skilled with girls, I had had no proper interaction with her before making my move. Nor did I after the theater.

I had just been extremely lucky that she had accepted my proposition in the first place.

In fact, after we kissed, I had no clue where to go from there.

She had said “yes,” but what do I do now? How do I keep her?

But as you saw, I soon stopped bothering with those questions, since the girl had realized that I might not be the kind of man she’d like to start a relationship with.

So this night, I came to the conclusion that in order to be more successful with girls, I had to take the time to connect with them.

I came to the conclusion that I had to take the time to make them feel at ease by my side.

It turned out that I managed to see this girl again a few weeks after this unfortunate event.

She had kind of given me a second chance.

“This time, I wasn’t going to make the same mistake,” I thought.

So I met her again, we had a walk, had a drink, and although I was a bit nervous, I made sure to play it cool.

I kept things light and we talked about various things; I made sure to connect with her as much as I could.

I didn’t want to make the same mistake I had made before, so I didn’t make a single move.

At the end of the date, we parted ways and I left with the feeling that I had done exactly what needed to be done.

Around 10 days later, we met again.

And like the previous date, I made sure to connect with her as much as I could, so that she could feel really at ease with me.

We had a great time together, but the end of the date didn’t go as I had planned.

My plan was to go for the kiss at the end of the date, and this way seal the deal once and for good (or so I thought).

But when I went for the kiss, she turned her head, looking a bit confused.

That’s when she told me that she had met a guy the week before and was now in a relationship with him.


I felt betrayed.

I had done everything right, hadn’t I?

I had taken the time to connect with her as I should have had on our very first date.

How had this guy managed to turn her into his girlfriend so quickly?

What did he understand that I didn’t?

I felt completely disoriented.

This is when I realized that I had a problem getting the girls I wanted.

And I was never going to get this right by staying idle.

I was fed up with just hoping to meet the right girl or somehow get lucky.

So I started doing some research about dating and female psychology.

I stumbled on some websites and forums on this topic…and that’s when I discovered the pick-up artist community.

I felt like I had found a gold mine…

All these tips and advice on how to attract and pick up women…

I started to binge on all this informative content.

I felt like I had so much to learn…

And it helped me.

But only up to a certain point.

I quickly felt overwhelmed.

There was some good information on the topic…and tons of contradictory advice…

And I didn’t want to take action before understanding exactly how women worked and what to do to pick them up.

So I’d binge on information, trying to come up with the perfect game plan.

I kept delaying the moment when I’d put my knowledge to the test.

Based on what I had read, what I had to do to attract women was adopting an attitude that would make them chase me.

I had to be the “prize” and avoid being perceived as a needy guy at all costs.

As a result, I seldom dared make a move with the girls I wanted, for fear of being perceived as needy.

And the times I managed to approach a girl or ask a girl out, I would do it with the wrong tone of voice and energy.

Something didn’t feel right, and the girl felt it.

It looked like something was wrong with me.

As you might guess, I was still struggling to make something happen with women.

But at a moment of my life when I had a lot of free time (and felt pretty lonely), I decided to go the extra mile and give it my all.

I decided to hit the street and finally put my knowledge to the test by approaching as many girls as necessary to figure out the most effective ways to attract and pick up the women I wanted.

I started alone, and at first it was really hard.

Not because I was rejected.

At first, I was actually never rejected.

Simply because I couldn’t make a single approach. I was way too afraid.

But hopefully, after several days of doing nothing, I finally found the courage to make an approach (I’ll show you how a bit later).

I managed to approach a stunning brunette with startling eyes.

And I got rejected.

But I didn’t care: I had managed to take action by approaching her.

Then, the following weeks, making an approach felt much easier.

I had realized it was no big deal.

But I still failed to make girls attracted to me.

I kept being rejected.

At best, I got the girl’s number. But this number led nowhere.

So I decided to get in touch with guys who had more experience in this field.

I found out the best guys…and learned from them.

I met those guys who were able to approach a girl on the street, take her on a date after just a few minutes of conversation, then take her home and have sex with her…in just a few hours.

I didn’t even know such things were possible.

Yet they are, and that’s exactly what I’m going to show you today.

So I decided to learn from them and replicate what they were doing, to see if it would work for me.

Since I had no real action plan, I struggled at first, but as I practiced, I started to get results.

I managed to make some attractive girls interested, get their numbers, and take them out on dates.

My ratio of success wasn’t very good at first, but as I refined my system, it got better.

I started to understand the underlying principles and mechanisms that allowed those guys to have sex with almost every girl they met in just a few hours…either the same day as the approach or at the end of the very first date.

What was even more interesting is that these girls would become loving and devoted girlfriends afterwards.

And this worked on all kinds of women: on shy girls as well as on extroverted and confident women… On girls in my entourage as well as ones I’d just met (on the street, in bars, clubs, parties…)

What I did is that I combined my findings in psychology with what I had learned in the field.

I wanted to create some kind of an action plan that would make meeting and dating women effortless, with the highest success rate as possible.

I decided to record all my interactions with women in order to identify what I was doing right and what I was doing wrong.

This allowed me to notice things I wouldn’t have noticed otherwise. Things I failed to notice in the heat of the interaction.

As I reviewed several hundreds of interactions with all kinds of women, I refined my system and finally came up with the perfect optimized game plan which allowed me to turn a hot girl into a loving and devoted girlfriend in just one date.

I had finally understood what to do to make her feel attracted to me without being perceived as needy.

I had come up with the right dosage of the ingredients of a date that allows a man to have sex with a girl in just a few hours and make her see him as a boyfriend (or as a potential lover).

And I didn’t stop there…

I had several of my buddies try this system out.

At first, they were skeptical.

They didn’t think it was possible to bed a girl that easily.

But when they saw me approach those two gorgeous girls on the street one September evening (and how they responded to my approach), they couldn’t believe their eyes.

After a few minutes of conversation, the stunning blonde gave me her number.

We kept chilling a bit, I kissed both girls goodbye, and went back to my two buddies, who were watching from the opposite corner of the street.

They were stunned (especially because those two girls looked completely out of my league).

The day after, I asked the gorgeous blonde out, using a short sequence of texts (which I’m going to show you in detail a bit later).

She said yes, and we went on a date 3 days later.

Like I said, she was hot.

Tall, thin, with a beautiful face.

She was a model and had a high level of self-confidence.

We didn’t have much in common…

Yet, I just stuck to my plan.

I took her to a coffee shop, where we spent one hour or so.

After that, we went for a walk.

We then stopped in another venue, to chill a bit.

The sexual tension was getting higher.

I could tell she was on.

After an hour or so, I invited her to my place…and I got an easy yes.

We headed to my place, and once there, we had sex.

And there’s more…

This beautiful, high-status girl wanted to keep seeing me afterwards.

And that’s just one example among many others.

That’s when my buddies decided to try my system out.

And it completely changed the way they approached dating.

Just like me before I started using this system for good, they struggled to know what to say to girls and often had awkward moments when they didn’t know what to do.

Now these guys had a series of steps to follow.

They knew exactly what to do to turn a girl they just met (or a girl they knew) into their girlfriend.

Women viewed them differently than most guys they had met before, just because they had a completely different approach to dating.

And as you’ve understood, this wasn’t just about having sex…

This system allows you to turn girls into loving and devoted girlfriends.

I even had this girlfriend who looked like Angelina Jolie pay for the restaurant. She would also cook me mind-blowing cakes and other delicious meals.

There’s also this gorgeous brunette who bought me this cute little gift the day following this date when I had sex with her.

All this because I had taken them through some very specific steps in which I did certain things (I’ll get to that in a moment).

What makes this system so powerful is that it handles everything for you.

You don’t have to worry about what to say, or when to ask for her phone number or social media profile, or when to make a move anymore.

And the numbers you get are solid.

Most of the numbers I get lead somewhere.

Girls almost never flake on me.

To achieve this level of success, there’s something you need to do during your first interaction with the girl, as well as some specific texts to send her (I’ll get to that in a moment).

Now, you may be wondering why you haven’t heard of this before…

Why aren’t more people talking about this?

Well, mainly because most people have no idea how things work.

They just stick to pop culture and media and think that that’s how things work in the real world.

However, there’s a gap between what you see in movies and the reality.

It’s not even the fault of producers or script writers. Most of them don’t have a clue of how women’s minds really work or what really attracts them.

But as a result, men think they absolutely need to be good-looking, rich, or famous to pick up beautiful women.

Yet, when I started dating, I was not particularly good-looking (I even had a bit of acne), I was broke, and as you probably guessed, I was not famous.

And despite that, I managed to pick up girls that most men didn’t dare approach, girls that were supposed to be way out of my league.

I managed to get gorgeous girlfriends with a high level of education, beautiful face, big boobs… Girls you likely believe only end up with rich guys or celebrities.

Good looks, money, or a nice car aren’t what really attracts women.

If you have that, sure, they’ll appreciate it, but it’s not what will make them sexually attracted to you.

It’s not what will make them desire you.

When you’ve understood the underlying principles of attraction and how to use them to meet and pick up women, you don’t need any of that.

I know that some girls say they like good-looking, tall, and rich guys. But there’s a gap between what those girls say and what they actually do.

A study conducted in 2008 at a speed-dating event showed that there is no connection between what women say they want and what they actually choose.

To pick up a girl, you just need to follow a simple process.

A process that will take you from frustration to abundance with women.

You ask her out, she says yes, you send a proofed and simple sequence of texts, you meet her on a date, and after two to three hours, she’s in your bed.

This is really simple.

It’s even fun.

Once you understand how it works, you don’t even have to think.

That was my goal with this system I created: make it so effective and easy to use so that every guy can get results immediately.

I call this system “The 9-Step Date Formula.”

It’s designed to make girls from total strangers (or acquaintances) into girlfriends, in just 9 simple steps.

Nothing fancy, just 9 easy steps to go through.

From asking the girl out (and getting a yes) to sleeping with her and making her your girlfriend.

It’s simple and easy to use.

And you won’t need to complicate things with routines or complex tricks.

Nor will you have to deal with these awkward moments when you don’t know whether it’s the right moment to ask her out, or don’t know what to say, or fail to connect and as a result never see her again.

The 9-Step Date Formula consists of 10 video modules with cheat sheets and demonstrations.

You watch the modules.

You put into practice what you learn.

You see the results.

The best part?

You won’t have to play a role or try to become someone you’re not.

You won’t have to learn pick up lines or gimmicks.

All you do is follow a simple process that you’ll fill with your personality.

And you won’t have to spend a lot of money on your dates.

It isn’t about taking the girl out on expensive restaurants or trying to impress her with fancy stuff.

Quite the contrary.

You won’t even have to pay for the date if you don’t want to. Some women will feel so connected to you that they’ll want to pay for it.

You can use this formula to meet girls with whom you’ll start a long-term relationship, or just to have fun bedding all the girls you want.

However, one word of caution:

This isn’t a magical formula.

This isn’t a magic spell that will turn a random girl into a loving girlfriend without you doing anything.

You’ll have to take action.

In order to attract her and make her want you, you’ll have to do certain things.

This formula is a 9-step process, easy to implement.

Picking up a hot girl might seem hard at first, but when you break down everything piece by piece, it all becomes clear and easy to understand.

So if you’re tired of frustration and you just want a simple and effective way to turn a girl you like into your girlfriend…look nowhere else.

This is the formula that will change your dating life for good.

Here’s just a small selection of what you’ll learn:

👉 2 particular things you must make a girl FEEL to make her crazy about you (we often forget one of these things; however, it can change everything about how a girl looks at you)…

👉 WHY male-female attraction has nothing to do with everything you’ve been told…and how it really works…

👉 The 4 COMPONENTS of a behavior that turns women on (this will help you create a sexually charged atmosphere with the girl)…

👉 5 PERSONALITY TRAITS you must express to attract beautiful women effortlessly

👉 A 3-step strategy to make an acquaintance perceive you as a potential boyfriend…and thus make her easy to date…

👉 The BEST way to initiate contact with a girl you often come across (for instance, at university or your workplace) but who doesn’t know you…

👉 THE BEST WAY you can approach a girl on the street to immediately have her see you as a potential boyfriend (you’ll see that it’s quite simple, as there’s just one specific thing you need to do to make her feel the right things about you)…

👉 THE TRAP in which you must NEVER fall when approaching a girl in the street (unless you want her to see you as a weirdo or as nothing more than a friendly guy)…

👉 3 RULES for approaching a hot girl on the street (when you have these rules in mind, you’re one step ahead of most guys who approach women in public places)…

👉 How to NOT be boring during your first interaction (unless you want to lose the girl for good, you don’t want your first conversation to be boring)…

👉 How to get the phone number (or social media profile) of a girl you’ve just approached (you just need to tell her one simple sentence that turns out to much more effective than all the advice you’ll find on the Internet)…

👉 How to approach a girl in a bar, club, or at a friend’s party (this works even better on groups)…

👉 HOW LONG you should wait before sending your first text to a girl you’ve met (hint: it’s going to depend on the girl and on the interaction you had with her)…

👉 HOW SHORT your first text should be (there’s a trap you must avoid, as counter-intuitive as it may seem)…

👉 ONE THING you must include in the first text you send to a girl you’ve approached

👉 What text you should send to a girl you’ve met online in order to ask her out (and get an easy yes)

👉 The SLAP-TEXT™ STRATEGY, which is a strategy that you’re going to use to ensure that the girl doesn’t forget you (it can be used if for whatever reason you can’t meet the girl a few days after the approach but have to wait several weeks or more)…INCLUDED: 3 characteristics of a powerful slap-text™…

👉 How to ASK THE GIRL OUT and get a YESBONUS: what are the BEST DAYS to take her out on a date

👉 What the BEST VENUES to start a date with a girl are…and what are the WORST VENUES to take a girl out (many guys make the mistake of taking girls out on the wrong venue, which makes it difficult to create the right atmosphere and make her feel the right things… It can even ruin your date)…

👉 Which BODY LANGUAGE you must adopt at the beginning of the date to make the girl feel at ease with you (don’t worry, you won’t have to complicate things by doing very specific gestures, here you only need to have in mind a few mistakes to avoid)…

👉 THE TRAP you must avoid when the girl tells you about her everyday life (I used to do that mistake not so long ago, and some “pick up artists” or silly “players” still do it)…

👉 WHICH TOPIC to talk about in the first part of the date to make sure the girl feels the right emotions…and doesn’t get bored…

👉 WHICH QUESTIONS you can ask a girl on a first date to make her feel POSITIVE emotions…and as a result make her want to be at your side…INCLUDED: a little technique that you can use to ask lame questions without coming off as a boring guy (it’ll help you if you have no inspiration at all)…

👉 A MISTAKE you must avoid when talking about yourself

👉 3 CONCRETE ACTIONS you can do to make a girl feel that you’re much MORE than a friend…And what you must do RIGHT AFTER that to not fuck it up like most guys do (and not look like a weirdo or needy guy)…

👉 At WHICH STAGE of the date you must seek (or not) to create an EMOTIONAL CONNECTION between you and the girl…INCLUDED: 2 topics of conversation you can talk about to create a connection with the girl (and how to bring them into the conversation in a natural way)…

👉 WHERE to take the girl out for the SECOND PART of the date (there are 3 factors you must consider here… and some very specific actions that you should do on the way to the second venue

👉 The ATTITUDE you’re going to adopt FROM THE MOMENT you enter the second venue (and where and how to sit to be able to easily implement the stuff you’re going to learn in this step)…

👉 3 BOLD TOPICS of conversation you can talk about to make the interaction MORE SEXUALLY CHARGED…BONUS: I’ll give you a little game that you can play with the girl to make her horny (don’t worry, it’s not an awkward PUA game that’ll make you look like a weirdo, quite the contrary)…

👉 WHAT to say to the girl so she gladly accepts the offer to come to your place (we’re also going to see WHEN you should make this proposition and WHEN not to do it)…

👉 A 5-point checklist that will help you ensure your place is ready to host the girl

👉 The FIRST THING you must do once you’ve crossed your doorstep if you want to immediately put the girl at ease…and thus make her ready for what’s coming next…

👉 WHAT to do once you’re at your place so that you two get closer, in a way that doesn’t feel weird or awkward

👉 How to heat things up and lead the interaction towards sex in a smooth and natural way

👉 Everything you need to know to make her experience an unforgettable time in bed…and thus make her want to see you again and again…

👉 The exact steps to follow to make sure she comes back again and again

With this formula, you just need 2 to 3 hours of face time with the girl.

This system will never be obsolete, because women will always be attracted to the same things. It’s biological.

And you can start getting results as soon as this week.

Even as soon as tomorrow.

Go though the course once and you’ll have all the knowledge and confidence you need to get the girls you want…and turn them into loving and devoted girlfriends.

It has already helped thousands of guys get amazing girlfriends and sex lives.

Now, let me ask you something…

Have you ever beaten yourself up for not approaching a girl you found attractive or for losing a girl you wanted as your girlfriend?

Have you ever failed to seize an opportunity with the perfect girl and as a result lost her for good?

You know, this girl with a beautiful face, incredible body, and mind-blowing personality…

Maybe you lost her because you were too afraid to approach her, or because you failed to turn her on and make her see you as a potential boyfriend…

Sounds familiar?


I’ve had those regrets so many times in my life before I decided to sort this area of my life out.

The good news is that you’ll probably see a girl like this again.

Maybe in a month.

Maybe in a week.

Or maybe…tomorrow.

The question is: will you seize the opportunity?

Will you approach her and do what’s necessary to make her feel attracted to you?

Will you be able to turn her into your girlfriend?

Or will it be like all the previous times when you waited too long and lost her, or failed to make her feel the right things about you?

With the 9-Step Date Formula, you don’t have to just let her walk away like all the other times.

You don’t have beat yourself up thinking about all those missed opportunities.

“What if I had managed to approach her and make her feel the right things?”

“What if I had managed to bring THIS girl into my life?”

“What if I had managed to make HER my girlfriend?”

With the 9-Step Date Formula, you know exactly what to do to make things happen.

You know exactly what to do to meet and attract the girls you want…whether she is a complete stranger, a girl you’ve just met, or an acquaintance.

You know what to do to make her go from cold and neutral to warm and horny.


Picture this girl you find so attractive.

Picture the girl of your dreams.

She is YOURS.

She’s in your arms.

You can feel her soft hands on your torso, her breast against your chest.

She smells good.

She loves you.

There’s only you in her life and she’s entirely devoted to you.

Just imagine.

I don’t know what your type of girl is, but having a simple and effective process to follow in order to meet and attract such girls can revolutionize your dating life.